wow. this is hard.

I have this boyfriend but it's kinda hard for us because i can't trust him because my exboyfriend used me so he could have 4 girlfriends [[he had 3 at the time]] and he told me he loved that i believed him. So like i said, i dont trust guys so i dont know what to do if i cant trust my boyfriend.

i had the same prob. with my ex stevie....then i found neil....... at first it was hard to trust him and then i got more comfortible around him.......and it got easier....... then we broke up but it was only b/c his daddy dont like me..... but i hope u have better luck...dont stay stuck on the past b/c if you do it will affect yourfuture...if you need any help or just need to talk halla at me....bye

Ya. thanks. That makes a lot of sense. And its nice to know that theres someone else thats been through it. Maybe we can talk more. My email is ilovetinkerbell313@msn.com
hit me up sometime!

What's a relationship without trust?

You can't just expect him to trust you, yet you can't fully trust him.

What kind of friend or rather girlfriend would that make you?

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it will get better for you, i went through a similar thing, my ex was a B*^%*&$, he messed up my mind so much that i thought i would never get over him, but when i met scott (my bf now) i told him about it and he was so understanding, he didnt push more or take me for granted or anything just supported me and helped me to trust him, and we're still together now 16 months later, and id trust him wiv my life.

so if u talk to your boyfriend about it im sure hell understand and prove to you that hes diferent from your ex.

All the best xkimx

dont worry too much... you shouldnt trust anyone fully, but once you guys get closer, you'll know if its real, dont believe what you hear

good luck

I went through the same thing my ex played me bad and then I met my boyfriend now and I didnt know if I could trust him, so it was a really rocky start but we worked through it and I realized all boys arent the same and you trust them more as your relationship progresses, I hope that helped a little, and good luck!