Hatred

I don't know why. It seems everyone wants to spread rumor fodder on those they envy, or even fear. I'm not posting this because I have a problem -- I've already fixed it -- but I'm posting to help those who are facing the same problem. I've been socially bullied my whole life, but not once have I ever been physically bullied. I've never fit in at school, I was the kid who wanted to be popular in middle school and got shattered by those who thought they were better than me. I'm now a loner, I have four good friends and thats it. This topic isnt for garnering sympathy about me though. I want to help others. If you've ever been bullied but have never had the will to fight back, or have ever been socially abused by cowards who hide behind stereotypes then tell me your story...i guarentee I have a solution.

well me i'm not really un popular but not popular either, i really have thought of about everything that i could possibly do to make friends or something, i'm hiding, hiding from everyone that could possibly make my life a living hell, i have only about 2 to 3 friends that i sometimes hang out with, usually i'm with my boyfriend, my self esteem is low even though people say i'm pretty i honestly don't believe it, and i really want to be able to go to school and be happy, i just need to i don't know, find more friends, so i'm not alone on fridays. it generally sucks, but yeah if you could give me some help that would be grreaeeat,, email me :morethan_wanted@yahoo.com
thanks

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well, I do have a problem, but it not 'bout school or being bullied. Im doing well in school, have a lot of friends, I love to jokes around, being happy & I love my life, but my first best friend wouldn't talk to me anymore cuz I can't return the feelings he have for me, & now he take it on my boyfriend. so what could I do, I mean if U could give me some advice then thanks. ^_^

Tell him you love him, but not enough to date him. Tell him that you believe he deserves more than simple dating -- he deserves a good friendship that'll last forever.

thanks, I will tell him that & try my best to make him understand ^_^

Yes, tell him, "I just like you as a friend" that's not a death sentence at all.

/sarcasm off

but, no, seriously, tell him sooner than later, prolonging the situation only makes it worse, and it's never easy...

death sentence that phrase, "Just friends!"

I'm not bitter at all. honest.

"Just friends" is a death sentence :(

Alright... "Just friends" is a death sentence...whatever whatever. I just gave what I think was the best idea and I'm sure as heck not a relationship speacialist. So, yeah -- bad judgement on my part, sorry.