I REALLY REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS 1.....

  • Katie Stice
    18 years ago

    Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 6 months now but I went to a club last weekend and its like a teen nite thing...well he didnt' go with me becuz he was with his friends and as soon as i go back to school he said someone said I was dancing on a guy, but the funny thing is I DIDN"T....so now he wont talk to me and stuff cuz he thinks I did... do you think I should just break up with him or should I ignore him and wait for him to come to me becuz he will hopefully soon figure out I didn't do anything????

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    You should ignore him and wait for him to figure it out. Breaking up with him will make him see that you truly did do it.

    Be patient. Be calm, and he will come to you...

  • Kac
    18 years ago

    Wait for him to come to you... right now he's just being stupid, but he'll come back to you and apologize once he realizes he's wrong. Breaking up with him wont work, 1 cause he'll think you did do it, and 2 because if your happy with him besides this you probably wouldnt want to end what you guys do have.

    ~*Kac*~

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    I agree with Ismail.

    You will definitely look guilty if you broke up with him. And if that were to happen, I'm sure he wouldn't be saying pretty things behind your back. You don't want a bad rep. especially since you are still so young. Learn from mistakes you've made, and will be making, and trust me, you will be making mistakes, but don't beat up yourself, because everyone makes mistakes. It's only the people who learn from them that stand strong. If he wants to be a jerk and assume things that never happen, let him. He is only missing out.
    It's as if he doesn't TRUST you. So be careful.

  • mandii
    18 years ago

    I think that if he doesn't belive YOU then he's not a good boyfriend. HE NEEDS TO TRUST YOU. And too bad he didn't go with you, he stayed with his friends AND he knew you were going to a teen club. If he doesn't believe you then find someone who will. You need to have trust in a relationship. And it seems like he doesn't have that. Right now he is ignoring you, and he MIGHT try to find a way to get back at you. I'm not saying he will, but sh*t happens!

  • daniel
    18 years ago

    OK I don't agree with anyone about you waiting for him, I do agree about not breaking up with him though. You see he is running the worst case scenario though his mind right now and he most likely won’t came and talk to you about it, so I think you need to talk to him and explain to him what happened. Just one man’s opinion, but don’t worry it will all work out.