I need some advice...work/ me plz!!

  • Kac
    18 years ago

    Sorry but I really need help. You see me and my boyfriend have been off and on for about a year and a half and I really do care about him. But in these last 2 months there has been another girl that intereferes with the way he feels for me. He broke up with me for her but then very quickly after he said he didnt want her and he only wanted me, but they have been talking a lot, and I think she may like him again and I'm afraid to lose him. I got on his sn yesterday and he had offlines from her saying stuff to him that didnt make me feel comfortable about our relationship and made em feel like I was just a game to him. I know he's different and I'm not a game, but I cant get him to tell me how he really feels or if he does have feelings for this other girl. And when I ask him about it he doesnt want to talk about and then he acts like everythings fine. What do I do? I dont want to lose him!

    ~*Kortney*~

  • Laura
    18 years ago

    why not try and write him a letter and write what you want to say then he cant change the subject that way and at least he will know how you feel. let him know he's pushing you away and you need to know how he feels and he might realise he might loose you again.

    i done that with my boyfriend and he opened up to me after he read the letter.

    Gud Luck
    Laura

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Lose him. He's either cheating on you, or wants this other girl and using you as a stand-in until things are sorted between him and this other girl. Lose the guy before he breaks it off with you. Tell him you've read messages and don't feel comfortable with the way he's acting. OR if you want to be a total bitch (much like I would .. and have done) tell him it's you or her and tell him to make his ultimatum.