what do i do???

ok this is whats wrong.... look at this......me and this guy met july of 2003.... we started dating and he is in miami,,,, well he is 4 years older than me and im 16. well we hooked up and he was getting over an addiction,,thats not the problem... the problem is since he come up to see last april we got in trouble for seeing each other...well now after this past 6 months he has been acting really wierd.. i dont even think we are still together.. he wont anser my calls but then he will call and be like baby i love you and ur still my girl and all this.. welll i dunno..because i want to get over him.. but i cant.. i cant do it.. i think i can wen i get pissed at him.. then i find myself calling him and trying to get a hold of him... wat do i do??? should i try to move on or do i try to be with him.. because we always talked about being together forever, and how he wants to spend his life with me.. but wat do i do???

ok... thats all i needed... i am goin to try. because i tried to call him and he wouldnt answer so i left a message saying that i am done with him... so i am goin to try.. ya i am goin to need some help along the way.. so ya all the advice you can give me will be great... thanx... write bac soon.. thanx

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ya.. i think its wat i want. because he wont answer my calls and he is constantly hurting me... i dont know wat to do.. all my frends tell me that i deserve better then that.. so ya. im sure that i want to leave.. cuz im starting to see wat they mean.. its gonna hurt and take time but im pretty sure i want to

Leave him. He is probably cheating on your ass.

ya i think thats wat im goin to do.. actually i am leaving him

ya i am trying. alll my frendz support wat i am doing its just really hard... i dunno sometimes i feel so lost

This is the one area where I have a little expertise. If he is acting really weird and you're not even sure that you're not together then it's not worth it. Hun, trust me, you're better off without him. And so you know, just generally speaking from experience, it might not be as hard to get over him as it seems. Besides, you're sixteen, still so young. Live a little. You don't have to find your soul mate just yet.