why cant i leave?

ok... i am having problems with this guy.. he is always hurting me and he knows it.. but i am weak and constantly go back to him... he knows he has control of me... i feel like i cant be without him.. i need advice and someone to talk to.. i am goin to try to leave him but i want some advice.. everyone plz help me... he isnt wat i need. i deserve better i know but its hard because i convincd my self he is what i need.. plz help me.. let me know wat u think

I think you're right! You do need better. So start showing him that he can't control you. I know it'll be hard but just try and do it for yourself. If you don't, you might end up in a bad situation. Those are the type of guys who end up mistreating you.

If you convinced yourself you need him then dont you think you can convince yourself you dont need him you really do deserve better I think after you've decided to walk away doing it is the hardest part but once you do it you'll feel so much better
Just do it walk away show him he cant hurt you anymore that you dont need him
I know you can do it just be strong.
If you wanna talk more just message me. :)
Im here fo you and i really hope everything goes well.

This is not good. I had a friend who went through the same thing. I had to put him together and once he didn't listen he went back to his ex for the 100th freaking time and then he realized he didnt need her. All i can say is that you seem like you know you dont need, but you can't seem to let go. Just keep telling yourself you can find someone better and you know he's not treating you with the respect you deserve. Good luck and if you need anymore help email me: punksunite24@yahoo.com

thank you so much.
today i have decided to leave.
he is not worth my time.
but im gonna need some more advice about things.
cuz i feel like i am throwing my life away. i feel broken with out him but i know im doin the right thing. if yall wanna email me its tori_0713@yahoo.com but if not hit me back with some more tips!! thanx

Because you are in love and you are desperate. And also you are his b***h....

um no im not his bitvh.
it not like that.
im not desperate either,

Why else go back to him. Hmm?

Bitches run back when their masters call.

no it aint like that.
because he always told me that he loved me and i thought i loved him and i thought that we would have our hard times but things should get better is what i thought.. but i was wrong

no birttany
i know thats why i am leaving him.. i have put up with it for a long time and i always just thought that it was the hard times of love.. but i learned that i shouldnt have to put up with that

He told you he loves you....

Wow. That is the line every man use when they want to have sex with their gf.

Lol.

Toni you are his b****.

That is the truth.

well see we never had sex. thats not wat he wanted.. sorry for spelling ur name rong..
umm but ya it wasnt sex.. he just wanted me for the hell of it..
but the point is im leaving him

Heya, well done for seeing hes bad for you!!! You say you've convinced yourself you NEED him, but you've admitted that you know he doesn't deserve you, so you're close to convincing yourself you DON'T need him..cos hun you don't!!! And when you meet a guy that will treat you like a Queen, you'll realize this guy now wasn't what you needed. Just stay strong & stay true to your words.

ya i know.. i posted this topic a couple of days ago and ya..
now i am starting to see wat everone else is saying.
i know i gottz leave him, its just hard to do.. i mean to leave someone u thought u loved and would have done nething for then to just up and leave is kinda hard.. but i know i gotta do it..

No one has control over but you, and you are stronger than you think you are. ALWAYS remember that. You do deserve better, and I'm sure that one day you will have it.

You are 16!! He is using you as his puppet on a string...don't let yourself get played. You'll go back to him even if you do leave...you arent strong minded. Best advice I can give is to stop lying to yourself