seeking advice, yeah its about love!...

Jeez Jen, the only thing I can think of is ...if you don`t want it to be more than friends, you have to make that known right away..I am talking from personal experience that if you let his feelings get stronger without telling him how you feel, it will make things worse in the long run. I wish I could tell you what to say, because if he loves you, his feelings will be hurt anyway, but If you are best friends, he will respect you more for saying something now. I hope this helped just a little bit.

Hmm... I don't know... do you have feelings for him other?? If you do, don' t hold them back just bcouse you are scared that your friendship might be ruined. You never know, he might just be the one that will love you for the rest of your life... sorry Jen, my post is probablily not the one you need/want to hear... I just like to see secret love works out... since Im in one mysef :(