is he flirting?

im trying to figure this guy out. he knows i exist and everything and we talk everyday. he actually hugs me at least 4 times a day. so what are some signs of flirting so i know what to look for and all?

hmm, well if a guy like U, then he come over & talk to U all the time. Ask for hugs, giving U some compliment 'bout how U look, ask if U free on weekend, or do U want to do something together.
That is my experience, but most of the guy I dates are not the shy type, so flirting is just so simple for them. But if he hugs U 4 times a day, then he must like U. ^_^

Signs of flirting? I'm not the girl to ask. Yeah guys flirt, but mine is a whole other situation that I'm not even getting into. If you really want to know if he's into you that way then you gotta ask him. That's the best policy. And maybe I should be taking my own advice, but we're not talking about me here.

Hmm well, I know this post is old but I was going through them... Honestly, I can't tell, my friends can but I can't, all the guys that have asked me out knew i liked them so.. *shrug*

But him hugging you 4 times a day does not garauntee he likes you... most of my guy mates hug me heeeeaps, but it's just a friend thing.
It depends, I guess, whether or not he's a huggy person *frown.*

Wow...

He hugs you...Well then there are two possibilities:

He is either gay

Or

He does not think of you in that way, he thinks of you as a friend.

ha, i thought of the "he is either gay" part too.

Okay, no. See if a guy hugs you he probably thinks of you as a really good friend. When a guy likes a girl they are usually shy around them. They blush a lot and stare at them. From what i know, hugging is just a way friends show they care unless you're going out with the guy.

Ok if your going to be rude then don't freaking reply ok? I'm sick of this shit. I ask for your advice and I don't ask for rude comebacks ok? and yes he does blush! he is very quiet around me but is very gentle and friendly.

AND IM NOT 12 IM 15 thank you

correction
according to your profile.. you're 14
lmao haha doesn't even know her own age

it must be love aw :D

OH RIGHT OOPS
MY REPLY LMAO

1. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?

2. Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?

3. Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."

4. Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.

5. Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"

6. Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.

7. Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.

Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?

See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.

Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

:D that was totally not mine lol but those are so true!

actually im turning 15 very soon thank you

Sorry if you took my post in a rude way, but it wasn't meant to be rude. I was just giving advice. Is'nt that what you wanted? I'm telling you what it seems like. What, do you want me to lie and say it sounds as if he really likes you and you should go after him?

Yes it is actually. we have gotten somewhat closer but now all I know is that he fears getting close to me because he fears he will end up cheating on his g/f.

It just sounded rude. yes I wanted advice and no I didn't want you to lie. it just sounded rude

Darling, what the other girl said did not sound rude at all.

Ask yourself this: if he really does like you, why has he got a girlfriend?