why hurt me???

ok i am trying to get over this guy.. we were together for 2 years.. for the past 4 months he has been playing me over..
well now i am realizing i dont need him but i feel completely lost without him.. i feel like i dont need to be here.. im goin through a really hard time and need people to talk with.. plz help

just try & be strong, a guy like that isn't worth your sadness. U don't need him to live, it just that U 2 have been together for 2 years, & long relationship is really hard to get over. Maybe finding a new boyfriend can help U get over him. ^_^

i know that i dont need him but its just really hard. everyone says jsut leave but its easier said than done, but i am leaving im just having a hard time leaving

well, I can tell it was very hard for U, & that me & the people who tell U to leave him doesn't really know what U are going through. But just try your best to be strong & just try to forget about him. It takes time for him to completely vanish from your mind, & the sadness will be gone. ^_^

ya i know that was pretty harsh.. i dont deserve any of it

If you don't need him, then you should have left him long ago. You not leaving gives to mind three possiblities:

1)That you are so pathetic that you will feign love, knowing that this is the only man who will be intrested in you.

2) That you love his abusive nature...And only complaining to get the pity, to live off

3) That you are weak....

Choose, because these three are all you are asking for.

tori, honey i understand. it's like u don't know what to do b/c for the past two years all you've done is be with him. you've probably sacraficed some of ur friends, ur hobbies, etc. and right after a relationship it's okay to feel lost without him, but it will get better with time. get a job, make some new friends, do something with ur time so u don't just sit around thinking about him. if u want to talk email me. t_s_layai@yahoo.com. good luck honey.

to all you other folks that have given her such mean and hateful comments on this subject (u know who u are) what are yalls problems? she's wanting sympathy, not some rude a s s comment. this is a place for a "sholder to cry on" not a punch in the gut. and it don't matter who u are or what u've done, no woman deserves any jerks s h i t. talanador does not have a point, people have diff. emotions over diff. things. saying that someone deserves to be played and hurt just cuz they miss someone is so low i don't even want to call names. And Ismail, have u even been in a realtionship? i don't think so because if u had you would know that even the strongest person can become weak. and if you had read Tori's comment you would have seen that she said she's realized that she doesn't need him. she's just unused to the void leaving him left. you two really make me sick. yall don't deserve to be loved with those kinds of Chauvinist opinions. -Leah