boyfriend went to juve... now what?

My boyfriend went to Juve. for 2 1/2 years... now what? We weren't dating very long, but we love eachother... So now what do I do... && of course on top of everything people are running their mouths && talking shit, so what do I do... Who do I believe... && should I wait?

yea when he was here he told me he loved me all the time && what not... When he left ppl said that he was kissing other ppl && that he told someone when he came back they'd be together && fix things... && what he did--- a number of things IDK what to do...

Move on let him grow up to be the man you deserve, if he was even half a man he would let you go and come back to you when he can provide for you and has sorted his own mess up - you dont wanna be dragged down with that nonsense

If you want to talk anymore I can help from a personal experience just go thru my profile to email me :o) good luck

do u want advice, be warned though, to me advice is when you know the answer, but wish u did'nt.
if the love is sincere, time only makes ur desire more intense,

i understand the waiting, but, if its true you'll both be glad that you did.

and the people runnin there mouths, shit understand people, no matter what u do there gonna run there mouths, no matter the option you pick, all u need to do is pick the one that you want.

understand, there is no easy way of telling what to do, but do you want to throw away all that youve, gained?

I most def. appreciate everything everyone has already replied... Im not quite sure still what to do, I mean I love him && he says he loves me && all his family && everything tells me he loves me && what not && I want to wait for him, but y'all are right I dont know if I'll be able to wait that long, but I dont want him to think with him being in there he has no one left, you know?

...dump him...you can do better....and two and a half years is a long time to go without someone you love right there by your side...you can find so many more people you love more...and wont get in trouble....who knows maybe when he gets out...you will go back to him...but i know i cant go more than a day withough my boyfriend holding me ...let alone two years

yea I feel ya... Thanks for the advice.

please... I apprecitate it.

anymore advice...anyone?

Jessica I have lots more advice but dont want to splurge it all over the forums - email me hun :o)

And guys thats just cause its my personal stuff :o)

alright thanks love, if anyone else has any more advice just lemme know... thanks.

anyone...anyone...?

more help ?!?!?!?!?!....please?

I finally wrote him the other day... now Im waiting for a reply... Im pretty sure Im going to try to move on, but I dont know what to do...

really? thanks I appreciate your advice...

Uh do you not have anything better to do besides sit around and wait for him to get out of juve? If its meant ot be it will but dont try to make something out of nothing.

I think I have pretty much decided to move on && he kind of already expected me to move on, but its almost like I didnt want him to be right, but I cant help fate. && thanks to everyone who has commented before...

IDK what to do... Now hes in my dreams, its intense too. I woke up && the way everything happened in my dream could had been real. One thing though when he came out of juve he was abusive && didnt want me to talk to anyone else including some of my friends almost like he wanted me all to himself. But it brought me to realize how much I really love him. what to do?!?!?

IT FINALLY CAME!!!

Yesterday when I came home i had a letter from him. Aw. It was so sweet. I really do love him. && God, knows I miss him more than anything... Lord, help me please.... Or someone.

No one is going to help you. Only yourself.

You need to be more independant and self-dependant...And less foolish and dependant on what other's say.

i THINK YOU SHOULD STAY WITH HIM AND AT LEAST WRITE HIM AND STAY IN CONNTACT CUS HE IS GOING TO BE LONLY IN THERE AND AT LEAST STAY HIS FRIEND AND AGREE FOR YOU TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE INTELL HE GETS OUT....JUST STAY IN TOUCH WITH HIM CUS HE WELL GET VERY LONLY IN THERE AND HE WELL WONT SOME ONE TO TALK TO AND IF YOU RELLY LOVE HIM THEN YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO WHAT EVER ONE SAYS .....I KNOW HOW IT IS I WENT HTRU THAT TO BUT MINE WHEN TOT JAIL SO IF YOU NEED SOME ONE TO TALK TO IM ME AT sweet_as_candy_603@yahoo.com or write me i know how it is

Or you could discover your caps lock.

Its on the left, dear.

Back on topic,

He can't be the best person in the world if hes stuck in juve for 2 and a half years. there has to be someone better.

i think that you should move on becausew you dont need to deal with everyone talking shit and you dont have him there to tell his side of the store and if he's in juve then you shouldn't be with him because what ever he did could become a bad part of your relationship with him. And if you hear rumurs of other girls are going to be with him when he getts back then just drop him find someone better and new

aww...honey, you love him so much.. =(

which is why this is so hard for me to say.. i think you should move on.. He's not going to be around for 2 1/2 years, thats a fair while.. i know, i know, you love him, you'd probably wait that time for him.. i know i would for someone i love.. but you do have to move on.. he can't be there for you at the minute. maybe when he gets out you two can go out together.. if you want to then.

umm...i'm sorry you have to choose to start off with..

Chris.

I appreciate greatly-all of your comments. I really think I may move on... The girl who said they are going to be together may just be right... I dont know, but Im also falling for someone else now. Im still not too sure what to do, but with time I suppose I will find my answer.