am i just being silly?

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend celebrated our 2 year anniversary on monday, i made him a "memory book" to give to him, which he says is "awesome" but hasn't actually looked at it yet. Things are great between us at the moment, well, they were. We don't see each other that much as it is, but he barely speaks to me when we're not seeing each other, it seems to be always ME talking to him first, not the other way round. Don't get me wrong, i love him, and i believe he loves me..i just wish he'd show it..he tells me he loves me a lot..i guess i just wish he'd show it more than he does. Am i being silly and paranoid about this or is this an issue i should talk to him about?

  • Gwen
    18 years ago

    i don't think U being silly at all, U just wanted him to show his love to U more often. So I think U should talk to him about it, maybe he will understand. ^_^

  • authum darkness
    18 years ago

    you're not being silly! maybe he has a hard time opening up to you. is he shy at all?

  • Xox P.a.U.L.i.n.A xoX
    18 years ago

    "If someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with wat they've got"
    If he treats you like this then I guess...???

  • Sole
    18 years ago

    Sometimes, its hard to express your feelings to someone, especially for men :l But just keep trying to get across how you feel - and think how lucky you are to have someone to love, who loves you back, in the first place :)

    Peace.

  • Cuddles
    18 years ago

    No, you're not being silly. If this persist then maybe you should talk to him about it. It seems to me like something is on his mind. Perhaps you should figure out what that is. Whether or not what he says hurts I don't know, but I do know that things will be better one way or another when he tells you whatever it is.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    yeh, hes one of those guys who doesn't really open up too much, and yeh, he is shy..still after 2 years!! But then, we both are still, which i guess is kinda cute lol :)
    Don't get me wrong, i am grateful to be with him, and i know he loves me, its just..he doesn't seem to show it..like it was our anniversary on monday, i've barely spoken to him since..i don't want to seem "clingy" to him, i guess i just miss him :(