I made a move and it didn't work out.

Well i did what people suggested and asked the guy i like to come see a movie with me and a few other people. He said he would come (he had been saving up to go) and he was bringing one other friend. When my two friends arrived, we waited about 20 mins and he never showed. I'm so disappointed because from what i was told, he really did want to come. I don't know what to do now. Some one help.

well if he REALLY wanted to come, he probably likes you. and he probably didn`t show cuz he didn`t have a ride or somethin came up...
thats all i really have to say about that..

Maybe he was just really late? I don't know, if he really wanted to go then he would have had a good reason. If not, well, you'll find someone else.

Yeah, i'm gonna ask him. I don't know. Maybe he didn't hear right on the phone. He was trying to get off quickly because his uncle kept listening in and it was a party for his cousin. Maybe i called at a bad time. I don't know. I'll find out.

Maybe he doesn't like you and just stood you up.

lets not jump to conclusions^

Or maybe something came up so you need to shut the fuck up. You don't know the whole story Kim so don't give me that crap.

Thank you. I know many people may not understand, but this guy went around asking people about me. He knows more about me then my own ex. I really feel a connection with him. He has hardly had any g/f's because he is searching for "the one" and i'm the only girl he has talked about as much as he does for a while. I just thought that maybe..he liked me. Maybe Kim is right. I don't know, everything is so confusing..

im a bloke and i say go again...the guy must've been pissing his pants with nerves

i agree with Nala...she always gives the top advice...which is amazing really considering her age and all...but she's been through alot of sh*t so she knows wat shes talking about...i'd go with her answer...but do fill her in on wat happens...so she can sus out the guy for ya ;)

"Or maybe something came up so you need to shut the fuck up. You don't know the whole story Kim so don't give me that crap."

There's no need for such bad language is there now. I wouldn't like you either. I don't blame him. And you don't know the whole story either otherwise you wouldn't be here so "don't give me that crap".

Maybe you were'nt his type...

Maybe he isn't attracted to you.

Maybe he thinks you are not goodlooking.

Choose one of these?

It might help.

Lol Ismail .. for once I'm on your side in this one. I agree - choose one of those.

Well see that's where you're wrong. About 5 people have asked him to be honest and tell them if he thought i was pretty. With a serious face which he hardly ever gives, he said yes. You both just suck at giving advise. You think you know, but turns out you don't. Thank all the people who are giving me advise i'm going to take. Ismail and Kim here's some advise, stop giving advise. You both put people down and that's not the kind of advise most people are looking for. Just to make this clear he asked if i wanted to go to the movies because i wanted him to go another day and he wasn't home. He said he would have really wanted to go and so he asked me to go the second time. If all you two are gonna do is say negative crap then why are you posting? I'm sick of you people. You always want to start crap. I'm done. Again, thatnk you everyone else.

Learn to spell advice. Not advise.
Yeah but I think my friends are pretty - I don't want to go out with them. I think some of my guy mates arevery good looking - doesn't make me want to go out with him. Face it he stood you up but then again the truth hurts doesn't it?

^^
you don`t know that for sure...

Oooo wow i made a mistake. I know how advice is spelled, i just miss typed it, big freaking deal. Oh and just to make this clear, i talked to him today. He looked really bad and sounded bad. He said he was sick and his mom thought he was too sick to go. He also said that this guy Darick (who works at the movies) told him we were looking for him. He said if Darick had called him, he would have tried to convince his mom to let him go. He wants to try again and he promised this time he won't miss it. Oh and he wanted to call me, but he doesn't have my number. Up yours Kim. You suck at giving advice and i just proved it. He even wants to go bowling. I'm so happy :D :D :D. There was proof he wasn't lying because he was sick today and Chris never lies. Heh what do you have to say about that Kim?

well i`m happy for you that he DIDN`T stand you up...
yay :P

Awww..thanks Lauren...you helped a lot. :D

Punk:

Firstly I don't give advice merely observational truth...Duh.

Secondly what you said, is the answer any person would say. I gave you a choice to choose.

And third. From what you said. It seems that you are too chicken to go and ask a boy who thinks you are cute out.

"Oooo wow i made a mistake. I know how advice is spelled, i just miss typed it, big freaking deal. Oh and just to make this clear, i talked to him today. He looked really bad and sounded bad. He said he was sick and his mom thought he was too sick to go. He also said that this guy Darick (who works at the movies) told him we were looking for him. He said if Darick had called him, he would have tried to convince his mom to let him go. He wants to try again and he promised this time he won't miss it. Oh and he wanted to call me, but he doesn't have my number. Up yours Kim. You suck at giving advice and i just proved it. He even wants to go bowling. I'm so happy :D :D :D. There was proof he wasn't lying because he was sick today and Chris never lies. Heh what do you have to say about that Kim?"

I say : lots of people use the excuse of being sick. Up yours? Ok then. I'll go up mine? I am great at giving advice, just advice I think is actually worth giving, if not I just like to criticise. Ah well. I'm totally over it.

Okay Ismail you are right about one thing. I'm too shy to ask him out, but i can't help that. I'm taking his bus this Friday to go over a friends. What do you suggeste i do? Oh and Kim, if he was making an excuse then why did he ask if we could try again? If he just didn't want to go, he wouldn't have asked if we wanted to try again. Oh and like i said, he was sick. He came to school on Monday feeling horrible and looking it as well. His parents don't let him miss any school. I feel bad. Sorry i got a little upset, but i just wanted advice that didn't make me think negative. A lot of people at my school keep saying that he shows signs of liking me. I just want someone to explain what i should do. He is confusing me. Oh and he's shy as well....

Be hot....And try and talk to him, and know what his intrest are. Start by talking about the weather. Then you can go over all the other stuff...

hmmm..that could work. One more question. I'm use to guys who are obvious about liking girls. Not all guys show it, do they?

Guys are shy around girls they like. They haven't learnt how to start telling them that they like them. So it is up to the girl's friends to tell whether he likes her or not.

When he grows up, he will tell the girls he likes.

Obvious signs of a boy liking a girl or boy? if case my be is:

Blushing
Stuttering
Being rude to the person
Insulting her (It is rare but it happens)
Or basically following the girl.

So punk, just try and look as feminine as you can. You have to be the one to tell him.

Okay, but see i'm scared and did i forget to mention he knows i like him. He has known since valentines day. Oh and he wants me to sit with him on the bus. Thanks for your advise Ismail. Tomorrow i'm gonna take your advice.

Well how was he gettin there? Something could have come up. Or maybe he just wasnt man enough to say he wasnt feeling you either way the only way you are gonna find out is to ask HIM! Why will people ask or talk to everybody else but the person they have a problem with??? part of growing up is facing your problems head on. Only he knows why he didint show.

Okay so Friday didn't go to well. I got on the bus and was some what pissed because i saw him talking to this girl i don't like very much. I walked right by him without looking at him on the bus. He looked back while i was showing my friend pictures and my friend said he was looking at me. I guess she was right because everytime i looked up he was staring. He said "boo" and i smiled and looked down again. Then he tried to get my attention by waving his hand between my friend and i. I looked up and tried to do the same thing to him but wound up hitting my friend upside the head lol. He started laughing and i turned a little red i think. After that, this girl behind me kept poking me in the head so i turned around and hit the pictures upside her head and she said "oouch" and Chris and everyone else started to laugh. After that things went bad. I guess Chris was trying to talk to me the whole bus ride, but i couldn't hear him. After all, i was the loudest on the bus. Every other minute he looked back and stared. Then he finally said to my friend and i "i've been trying to talk to you for the past half an hour. Are you gonna talk to me or am i just going to have to keep listening in". I felt like crap and didn't know what he was talking about. I saw his hair and i got the urge to poke it lol and i did. He smiled and turned around and right when he was about to get off, my friend said "Chris, you have a bald spot on the back of your head". I smiled and looked and he tried to cover it and was a little red. I poked it and he and i both started to laugh, but i could tell he was upset about something. After my friend and i got off the bus she told me he told her the other day that he REALLY wanted to talk to me on the bus, but she had no idea what he was going to talk to me about. When we got to her house we called him and told him we didn't know he was trying to talk. When i got on the phone and asked him, he said yes in a sad but at the same time mad kind of way. We asked him to come over so we could talk, but we heard his mom say they were going camping in the background. I felt like crap for the rest of the day and the next day. I don't know what to do now. I messed up big time, but it was only because i was so nervous and i knew if i talked to him i would blush. What do i do now?

you have to build up the courage to be able to talk to him!!! if you wanna be in a relationship ya'll have to communicate somehow. and he probably thinks you were nervous if you tried 'ignoring' him in a way. you should've talked to him, but its too late now. call him when you're at YOUR house with no friends over. maybe he has something he wants to tell you without everyone else listening in...

Use that to your advantage. If you blush and speak to him, it may make you a tad bit more attractive. And more likeable,

Okay, well it seems as if he is starting to like me and makes it more and more obvious each day. For instance today, he saw me talking to one of my guy friends and asked my best friend if i knew him. She said yeah and that he was in our english class. Then he asked if i liked him and she said "no, i don't think so" and he said "well, does he like her?" and she said " i don't know, but i can find out if you want". Right after she said that he said "no, that's okay" and was quiet. Do guys deny it when they like a girl? He kept denying it, but yet every time he denyed it, he smiled. I don't know if this is a sign he likes me or not.

well my ((EX)) boyfriend denied he liked me before we went out. then after a while...he finally admitted it. so...it sounds like he does like you. maybe you should try making the first move...

I would, but i hate making the first move.

well...
move around it. don't make it so obvious. maybe he'll finally make the first move.

Well honey tell him u like him so much that your nervous. CHances are he is too. If u just state it like that it will definately break the ice...it will even be a conversation starter.

Well yesterday i went back on the bus and he didn't try and talk to me at all. When i first got on our eyes met and it stayed that way till i got to the seat, then he turned away and my friend who was behind me said he turned beat red. Oh and i found out that the group snow mobile group thing was a plan. Chris knew that the two other people he invited weren't going to show up. He wanted it just to be me. He didn't want it to seem like a date, that's why he said it was a group thing. Thank you for all of your advice and i think i know where to go from here.

dont freak!
he prolly couldnt make it
have u even talked to him yet?
if he was going to save up for it
he obviously wants to go with you
dont worry