Changing myself and what i stand for.

Well first of all. Cut the curse words. I totally agree with you, I also did change the way I acted. There's no point on being the 'public enemy' . It doesn't mean that you just give up what you believe in though, I still argue, but only for my own points, not for someone elses, or what not.

Anyways, good luck, it worked for me, I hope it works for you.

First of all, if you are serious ... then start with changing your name and profile. Baby steps! Come up with 3 positive statements and say them to yourself throughout the day.

Ha...

It's funny...

I am not nice, but then if you want to be nice, you have to be a nice actor...

"Baby steps! Come up with 3 positive statements and say them to yourself throughout the day"

That is so incredibly patronizing.

Well personally I'd attack you with a spork if you were changing for what others thought. Because in my incredably long life (15 years yea we all thought I wouldn't make it 5) I have learned that they aren't important, their only purpose in life is to make you and others miserable so you gotta fight the pigs, and by fight I'm literall. But hey if you're seriously wanting to change yourself 100% because of how you feel about yourself (yea I believe you... SARCASM!! TO THE SPORK!) then any time you think something counter-productive then you should ruthlessly mentally attack yourself, I mean like until you feel completely sick about yourself to the point where you A) change after a period of time OR B) you throw yourself from a bridge, either way THEY have won, and you are either with them, or a broken mass floating down the river bank...

I used to be a nosy ass hole who always had to get in other peoples business. It ended up costing me my best friend and the one i loved so i, unknowingly, changed into who i am. I'm a happy guy whos content with basic knolege of peoples lives. But i write things that makes me seem depressed. Change comes with emotional trauma. Or you hve to convince yourself that who you are isn't who you want to be. But be careful not to be an asshole when you change.

haha alex^^ you have a point!

i totally understand what you're saying. Unfortunately there's no steps you can really take. . . depends who you are, what you want to change into and what from.. and why? osrt out the questions before so that there are no surprises.//
xxx