Love???

  • Xox P.a.U.L.i.n.A xoX
    18 years ago

    Tell me... What is true Love??? A blessing? Curse? Stupidity?... I had My first true love for about a year and i just broke up with him two weeks ago... I think about him all the time...
    After we broke up.. Lots of guys started to ask me out...
    Do I Try and get him back by making him jelous or just let him be with his friends and give him space...
    I know it's adumb question...
    Sumtimes I need a Guyz opinion on this stuff

    ~~Another thing, He's my Best friend too...~~

    Please Help :) I'll Check out YOUR poems, comment and rate on them too :)

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    I would just let him go...just let him be with your friends and you do your own thing...if you guys are meant to be together, then you will be. If best friends is all it's supposed to be, then so be it! And btw....true love is a blessing, and a lesson. Lol...think about it.

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    Why did you break up with him? Did you have a good reason?
    If he's your best friend try to hold on to that friendship because if you give up on him your relationship even as friends will disappear
    I lost my best friend because of "Love"
    And i think about him all the time and miss him so much but we dont talk at all anymore.
    Maybe you should give him space but dont try to make him jealous it might blow up in your face and he wont give you a second look on your whole relationship.
    I really dont know what else to say because i dont know the whole situation.
    Good luck with everything though.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    hey!
    the worse thing u can do is try make him jealous because it might work but youll feel like crap inside!! an itll push him far away from you!!

    an give him space yeah but also give yourself space! space an time dont and wont hurt anyone... its good to take time out now and again!!

    if you feel this strong about him tell him talk to him! because if you dont tell him and let him decide there willl come a day where he will be walking into someone elses arms and youll be standing there watching thinking an saying "i should of told him!"

    not worth getting hurt when u can be happy again with him!!
    but everything what happens in our lives happens for reasons!! they are learning curves! but if you miss him and want him back tell him!! then at least then u can say i did tell you... and he can then tell you too!!

    your not gonna have your answers if you both dont talk!
    if he wants to spend time with his mates and just wants to be best mates with you then so be it.. nothing you can do apart from letting him go!

    hope ive helped!
    xhx

    take care!

    o and love is many things!
    fun
    laughs and giggles
    tears and fights
    loveable hugs and kisses
    make up hugs!
    arguements
    fantastic feelings!

    and most of all......

    its a lesson!!!
    x

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    Love is a fickle temptress...

  • Mel
    18 years ago

    There was a song out some years ago and I can never forget the chorus of that song when it comes to love:

    'don't push it, don't force it
    let it happen naturally.
    Love will surely happen
    if love was meant to be'

    Now, what was the name of that song?

  • ~Xkitty24X~
    18 years ago

    umm... dont know...