I love him but its too late

I never realized that this guy was the greatest thing that happened to me until he broke up with me. Now all i do day and night and sit and stare at the wall thinking of what could have been. Now i realize that I love him and that I always did, just didn't realize it. I was blinded from all the problems that I couldn't see that He was the one for me... Now i am helplessly in love and I can't do anything about it...Help what should I do?

P.S. i already asked him back...!

since you already asked him out what more is there to do...have you told him straight from your heart whats goin on...if not i think you should at least exolain that you really care about him

Hello Lady Pathetic

I want you to meet Mrs. Independence. Because you seriously need her. Have you ever thought that maybe him breaking up with you is a good thing. Think about it.

If he was the greatest guy. Why break up with you?

You need to see that there is such a thing called living without the love of a man who already dumped you.

And now you asked him back.

Wow you really need to see Mrs. Independence stat

Mrs. Independence we have a fool over here. Come here and show her how to become an independent single woman.

well this is what he said: he wrote "have you ever wanted something but couldn't have it cuz you know that you would get hurt..." I really don't get it he tells his best friend that he still likes me we talk and all. and when he is near me i know he feels the same way I do. He made plans for my birthday, and he even told me that soon we would go back to the same place we met. The deal is that I hurt him real bad, and most of my friends say just forget it, I have tried, it has almost been like 8 months since he broke up with me. and at times we still have those moments of silence, you know when you just want to hug each other and say I love you. He still tries to get me jealous, and he tries to make me a perfect person... but I don't know exactly what goes on through his mind.
I know for a fact that he still feels something for me, I only know that much.

I think maybe the fact that you didn't even realize that you loved him until he broke up with you is really getting in the way. It seems to me that you took him for granted, you know? Because even you said that you didn't realize how much you loved him till he left... in my eyes that's what I would call taking someone for granted. I think you have to fix that first ... maybe show him that you really love him. He might be reluctant to go back to you because you hurt him in the first place! But that's just my opinion...

Good luck!

orange daisy