bad friend?

does wanting to be with your friends boyfriend make you a bad person? even if you liked him way before they did? adn he liked you, but you couldn't be together at that time?

Why should you feel guilty over what your feelingz are feeling, i am currently kind of in that situation, dont feel bad about it...maybe dont try to date or anything until they are done and what not...but you are not a bad friend.

OMG! the same thing happened to me. if it wasnt for me they wouldnt even know eachother, and then i started liking him before i introduced them, but once they met, her exact words were, when i confessed i liked him alot, "no. hes mine. back off." now theyve been going out for over 8 months and i still love him to death. it does make me feel bad, because i know more about him than she can ever hope to know, but back to your question (sorry, ive never told anyone that before and things just kinda spilled out from being hidden that long) no, YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON!!! feelings are feelings. you cant change them. dont worry. just DO NOT try to break them up. ruins friendships and he will probly hate you for it, therefor ruining your chances of getting him. be patient. ive been waiting for 8 months. if its meant to happen, it will. ive moved on to another guy, and things are goin great. dont limit yourself to one person. there are soooo many out there.