Our Conversation Hurt Me So Bad

Okay, this is the conversation my Boyfriend and I had a day ago.
Me: I love you.
Dustin: Whatever
m:What?
d: Jake told me you were cheating on me.
m: and you believed him?
d: well, hes my best friend
m: apprantley he isnt if he said that.
d: why else would he?
I didn't say anything.
d: so you are!
m: NO! I Love You!
d:I don't think you do!
m:Dustin! I LOVE You! Why on earth would I hurt you?
d: I don't know
m: I would never hurt you, dustin. I love you. You should know that.
After i said this he left. I haven't seen him since yesterday because he wasn't at school. I really don't want to call him, either.
What should I do?

i think you should call him i mean if he is already mad at you whats the worst he could do...hang up on you....just stay strong and try to talk it out and if he really believes jake over you than he must not be that good...good luck

:o I hope you aren't cheating on him. But if you really aren't then sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that he should be able to trust you. Tell him that you understand that Jake is his bestfriend but tell him that he should be able to trust his own girlfriend...*Can't get anywhere without trust

Hmm, if you aren't cheating...then he could just be wanting out of the relationship and thinking of some dumb way to get out, because he might just be a coward. Before you talk to him, talk to the friend. That's what I would think.

And, if you are cheating...then SHAME ON YOU.

are you cheating?? if not then you shouldnt worry more about defending yourself.. Ask his best friend if he really did say that and if he did them tell him that you aint.. then sit down ur bf and his best freidn together and tell them both.. if they still dont believe you then he aint worth having you.. especiallysince he cant trust you..

Trust is a really big issue in every relationship. But who should one trust his best friend, or his girlfriend. I guess he will trust his best friend, seeing as the motto "Girls come and go, but friends are forever".

I suggest you don't talk to him, if I know how teenage boys work. He would probably "not like to see your hussy face" for some time. I guess that what he will be thinking. Lay low for a while.

I agree with Ismail. That motto is very true for teenage boys. I can tell you I've followed it. Also, trust is one of the hardest things to gain in a relationship. Once you break it, you can never get it back. Hearing something from a best friend, you sort of lost that trust, even if it wasn't true. That's why he seemed cold.

Another thing, love is a powerful word. To throw it out like that when the feeling isn't mutal, can be dangerous.

OKay, thanks for your input. I am NOT cheating, or wasn't. i broke it off with the jerk. He has called me but I didn't answer. he even sent me a rose during classd, but I just gave it back to him. You guys are soo great.

If you loved him why'd you break it off with him?
Sorry just I dunno, wondering.

I still do love him, but I know it will go away. Its hard to be in a relationship when you get accused of being unfaithful, so thats why i dumped him.

Ohok. Yeah I get that.
Wellp he was an idiot then.

Yeah, he was. I cannt believe it lasted so long, either. But whatever, screw him.

Umm ok, so I'm probably a little bit naive - I always have been. And god knows I've given past boyfriends (and probably this one) a few too many chances, but in saying that... I also want to ask you some things...
Don't all relationships encounter a few rough times?
Isn't a second chance worth while?
If he's saying sorry, then maybe he only acted that way out of being hurt (because being told that your 'other half' is cheating on you is quite the surprise)... and if that's the case, couldn't you just talk it over with him?
Did he know how the conversation hurt you?
Does he know how you feel about trust?

Well anyway, I personally believe that without the proper conversation, anybody is taking their chances ona relationship - and sometimes some really special ones are thrown away on a silly disagreement. Couldn't you have talked to him about your feelings on the trust issue?

Hmm, like I said in the beginning though, I've made some mistakes by giving too many chances - but this is just my two cents. Thought I'd share them.

rocky waters ahead whatever you do. hope it all works out

You should think to yourself how much can you really love a person who turns his back on you in an instant - no questions asked...

I would be thinking not a lot...

Your love is more precious, give it to someone worth it

Dont call him wait 4 him 2 call u, A relationship is all bout trust what kind of relationship have you got if you get accused of cheating when you neva, and it only gets worse you wont b able 2 look at another boy and you will b getting acussed o stuff

Wait 4 him 2 crawl bk 2 u x

oh the highschool drama, hes not worth it if he believes that shit. trust me, the rumors get worse after a while, find someone who will say fuck the rumors

cut the swearing.