PLEASE HELP IM SOOOOOOOO CONFUSED!!!!

  • Rachel
    18 years ago

    Ok....well about 9 months ago i was with this really great guy and then he broke up with me and i was really depressed and then wendesday he asked me out again I was so shocked and since i still liekd him i told him yes on thursday but now that im with him i dont feel like i like him like that i think i like him more as my best friend but i dont know for sure....I love him sooo much but id ont know as a bf or a best friendhes so awesome....what should i do?

  • Lauren Waszkiewicz
    18 years ago

    i know exactly how u feel this just happened to me like a month ago. the most important thing to do it to talk to him. i know it seems corny or stupid or w/e but talk to him about how u think of him as just a good friend. i think that u just missed it while it was gone but realized that it weasnt what u thought it was. now u have to face that facts and tell him that u want to just be friends..
    -sigh-
    ♥♥Lauren

  • Rachel
    18 years ago

    I knoe but i dont know if i really want to do that cause if i break up with him then i'll probaly relize i made a huge mistake.....do u think it could be because im not use to beingwith him in a while?

  • ..eliSa*
    18 years ago

    rachel, for most girls its always that you love what you cant have and not that u have him, ur bored. u definatly only seem his as a friend-but thats okay because if hes the great guy u think he is, then being friends will work out just fine. speak to him and who knoes, maybe he feels the same. but dont beat around the bush, let him knoe how u feel..all the luck to u!!

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    I know how you feel. My ex and I went through the same thing. We even talked about it and that was when we first said I love you...but then things were different, and we relized that we thought of eachother more as friends, and now we are the best of friends. We tell eachother everything and we both have new significant others, and the 4 of us are the best friends anyone could ask for. Lol. So, just talk to him. You might end up with a life long friend, instead of nothing at all.

  • Rachel
    18 years ago

    Thank you guys for the help.....e worked it out were gonna see how it goes this week cause he feels the same but we decided maybe we were separated so long we forgot how great it was to be with each other.....so were see what happens