i got a really big desicion please help

ok i have been dateing a really nice guy his name is chris i cant help but wanting to have sex with hem i want to and he isn't fake we have planed are hole life together if he wasnt in my life i honestly would not be here he has talked me out of killing my self thousands of times he is so sweet and sooo true to me i haven't found not one flaw in hem i mean his portarican my mom loves hem hes cool with all the guys hes got a big ass dick and most of all he loves me and what ever i dont want to do then he'll wait should i have sex with hem???ppplleasssee help me!!!!!!

If you want to have "SEX" your are to young. To understand what sex is about you have mature in age. To be young and have all these emotions running threw your body is touch. But when your older and you find the guy that you are going to be for a long time this when you should make love, and not have sex. Sex has no emotion behind it. No feelings. And to be only 13 think of this guy who will say hes not going to say anything you know he is going to tell his buddies. And in the long run you will only have regrets about it. High School can be a diffuclut place but just wait untill your older and you are with a man who treats you like gold. In the long run it will be worth the wait and you will be glad that you saved the ONE thing you can only give to ONE MAN!!! think of that too in your desion.

This could be an extremely critical decision in your life. It isn't the kind of decision to be rushed. And it isn't something where a simple yes or no kind of advice is appropriate.

I think you should sit back, perhaps hava a cup of tea, take a walk or anything else to relieve some tension. Then get over to Barnes & Noble or any other good bookstore and get yourself a copy of *Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives* by Laura Schlessinger. Hopefully the wisdom contained in this book will give you some insight for analyzing the most important decisions in your life by carefully considering all the potential consequences. And I wish you the very best of luck ahead.

Dont do it. You are too young, dont waste your young life. Sit back, ya know, indulge yourself in something. Just not do it yet...

But it is my opinion, the decision still lays on you... so...yea...like that

ok yall i have good knews i stayed up till 5 in the morning talking to chris (the guy)about it!he understands me totally and completly he would never do or even dare to push me about some thing that i'm not ready or shore about.he does treat me right better than gold better then a queen i love hem dearly but i do understand that i need to save it! so now we desided to save it together!

I'm sorry to say but I think U are WAY to young
come on you're only 13 years old
And agreeing with the rest wait until marrige

** Alexander **