Should i go back or not

read ur mesage again, and pretend its from a complete stranger, what would u say?..probably u should have gotten the message by the 3rd time, the forth maybe even the 5th, but 13?:S he doesnt deserve u if he cheats on u. never chose a guy over ur friends either because friendships last a lifetime, but guys come and go. never betray ur friends..ur heart is lieing to u!

he doesnt love you...if he truly did he wouldnt have cheated on you the first time....and you dont need him you can get so much better and go so much further in life think about it seriously,...i would have gotten the clue by the third time and not go back with him...i hate cheaters...and once a cheater always a cheater

Ummm no affense, but if he really loves you, would he have cheated on you 12 times!?! Are you blind? He doesn't love you. He is using you so he has someone. I really think you should move on. Nomrmally people realize they should by the 4th or 5th time. If you want to keep getting hurt and never find a guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve,by all means stay with him. If you want someone who will love you and teat you right, do yourself the favor and move on. Nobody can tell you what to do, but you need to ask yourself what the right thing to do is. Good luck, i hope you make the right choice.

Should you…

Your heart says yes, because it has experienced love with that person. So what you do is. You don’t go back to him. He already broken your heart. Want him to break it again, and make you his bitch.

Hunny, okay , this might be alittle harsh.. *clears throat*
WHAT THE HELL GIRL!?
I mean 13 times, come on child, you're joking, I would have dumped his ass after the 2ad or 3rd time, but 13! MY GOD! He doesn't love you obveiously, not trying to sound mean or anything, but hunny, that's just wrong. 13 times, I can't but say that so much, it's hard to believe you'd still be with him. Tough love hunny, tough love.
I love ya girl, just read dat comment over again, u put, and think it over. peace out hunny. take care, make the right choice.

-*-Cherri-*-

Who knows, you might find out, you could fall in love with some one else, go out and look.

who knows....

Going back is your choice. If you love someone don't just quit. Give it some time. If he loves you he'll see how much all this hurts you. If your friends care so much about you then they'll understand that you can't just love anyone. You love who you love. If anything just be friends. Because if I could have changed one thing it would have been not leaving the one I love and losing his friendship that I had.

DONT GO TO HIM, JEEZ! twelve times?! are you NUTS?! what's to say he won't keep doing it, especially if the first twelve times didn't knock you in the head first? girl...STAY AWAY!!!

~*Kaira

OMG I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD GO BACK W/ HIM I MEAN 12 TIMES NO!! IF U GO BACK OUT WITH HIM U R STUPID! NO OFFENCE! AND YOU SAID HE WAS YOUR FRIEND BEFORE YALL WENT OUT....THATS NOT A FRIEND OR EVEN A LIL BIT OF COMPASSION...SRY ITS JUST MY OPINION!!

Well I just wanted to say I am SOO SORRY you love and ASSHOLE, and please don't think I'm just being mean I think that totally described it, and the only reason you can't move on is because you won't let yourself, you NEED to move on from that. Look if men can move on after their mothers die, then you can move on after this jerk and done that to you 12 times!! I mean come on think about it.... just work up some courage, and tell him you can't be with him.... maybe just friends, but dont' get back with him.... after you tell him no if he goes straight to another girl you'll know you did the right thing, he never really loved you

The answer is so obvious, you shouldn't go back. If you went back with him 12 times and he cheated on you all those times then he doesnt love you. If he loved you he wouldn't have cheated. You should just get over him, easier said than done I know but you will sooner or later cuz you will find a better man than him, that will treat you right. If you keep takin him back then he will think that you will always take him back and you'll get hurt everytime and get taken advantage of. So you shouldnt take him back. I'm surprised you stayed with him for that long.