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Well that is a pretty confusing situation your in...you say you love them both, and to me it sounds like your with victor so im thinking that he is your boyfriend..well im not really sure what i would do but i think i would just follow my heart, you probably are leaning more towards one of the guys...maybe you should just level it out and see who treats you better, the one who treats you better you should be with. the other guy is your best friend and he told you that he loves you but maybe you should just stay friends for now because sometimes that is the right decision...but im not totally sure..or it may be better to be with your best friend and give that a try. I hope i helped at all even though i probably didnt because that is a very complicated situation
email me if you would like and tell me more and i may be able to help you decide.
lisaj_04_88@yahoo.com

become a lesbian that way ur problems sovled

hmm let me see if i can give you some good advice as you gave me. I recently got married in may and yet i was still in love with my ex-boyfriend. I know thats thats the worst possible thing but i just could not get over the small things that he would do for me. Some nights i would stare at the phone wanting to pick it up when my husband wasn't home. I even went as so far as to think well if i cheat my husband once w/ my ex it won't be to bad. Anyways I went through several months of aganizing confusion. One day i went to work and i knew he was going to be there. My heart pounded and i sat in my car for sometime before i would go in. When i did i seen him. I couldn't sign in my hands were shaking so bad. Then he asked how i was doing. I said I got married. And thats where it all started. We went outside and talked for at least a half hour. In that time i began to reilze all the bad i forgot taht was in him. And the LOVE that my husband had for me. I called my ex the day and we chatted on the phone for 3 hours I helped him out with a problem he had with his girlfriend at the time. When we hung up the phone i felt a surge of reilf go threw me. Like The whole purpose behind me wanting to talk or see my ex one last time was maybe to help him find happieness w/ another girl. And That way i could have a free mind and work on my marriege before i destroyed it. I havn't spoke to my ex sence then. But i did tell my husband everything. And he took it better than i expected. Our relationship grew because of it. We were able to communicate better. Which one of these men are going to make you happy beyond your imagines. What one will be there threw one of the roughest times in your life and still grab you and hug you. Sometimes you have to let go of the one you think you love to find the one you truely love. It might not be the one you think it is. But in the end you will know what to do trust your judgment. And happiness will provail. :) Good luck

it's a hard choice. you pick one and lose the other. i wrote a poem similar to this (between the two) because i was in that situation.... hope you make the right decision.

like ms said, pick one and lose the other, its perfectly normal. you always cant have both, you just cant. one day, you will be forced to choose between the two, tough luck to the guy who wont be chosen...