Looking for some advice

im completely in love with my boyfriend weve been together for 6 months. Lately though things havent been going so well. I fight everyday and always come close to breaking up but we both know we would be miserable without each other. Now we are both Depressed and on medication for it and that might make our relationship more difficult but i just dont understand how we fight so much and hurt each other but love each other so much. what do you guys think about it.

Wow you're "in love" with a guy you have been with for 6 months. You're 16 and you're "in love". I guess that means you want to be with him for the rest of your life? Okay i'm not even going to get into this. If you really love him, you will work through the bad times. Every relationship has those rough times. Just talk things through and thinngs will work out. The only time things go bad is when you don't talk them through.

YALL COULD JUS LIKE TAKE A BREAK AND JUST SEE WHAT HAPPENS AND IF YALL ARE REALLY MEANT TO BE YALL WILL END UP TOGETHER....BUIT THIS IS JUST MY OPINION THOUGH

Ok…Here is what you do: Obviously you are fighting because you and him are pent up. There is some pent up feeling, sexual or frustration otherwise.

So I suggest that you and him, take a break: Nothing like a separation to make the heart grow fonder. Take a month without him. Try it.

Yeah, Ishy, you're actually right on this one, lol take a break, and see what happens.

-*-Cherri-*-

ummm...well.....i am 18 and married with a 9 month old daughter....fights are part of a relationship...without them ur relationship is way to good to be true...but i think that if u too love eachother u two need to work out ur problems...i dont know about the medication thing...but...thats alil to dramatic.....maybe a lil to non truthful...but maybe u are....ne ways....wrok thru your problems...fights all the time are not healthy accually its a cry out for help get me out of this...u two need maybe some time alone....apart? try not seeing him for like a couple days....that way u can both clear your head and get back to reality!....maybe u should think of some good things and bad things in the relatonship...work on the bad things and compromise on others listed...it will help....go out with friends...enjoy time alone...it will help trust me!! lol...maybe even a new relationship? if things dont turn out there are always ur friends that will never go back on u when in need!!!

jodi

well i thought you guys were right so i did it i broke up with him. Howcome it doesnt feel right at all. I have the most powerful feeling that this was a huge mistake. I dont know what to do.