Love probelm!!!

.............didn't you post a different topic?

lol. i think that you should never tell anyone you love them if you dont. its that simple.

I agree.. Love isn't somethng to joke about, take advantage of, or 'lie' about - even if it was meant in an innocent way.
And I don't think you were starting to love him, because if that were true I'm pretty sure you'd be wallowing in self pity all by yourself - not wondering if saying it was wrong - you wouldn't start wondering if it was wrong After you start to develop feelings.
Anyway, I don't think it was necissarily right. Though it does sound like when he said it he didn't quite know the full meaning of love as it is... You don't just love someone, tell them that, and then two weeks later move on... I just don't believe it works like that. So if I were you, I would just get over it.

well, u didnt do the right thoing the best thing in a relationship that holds it together is honesty and trustworthty...so be honest even if i does hurt some times that makes for a better relationship...also even if it does hurt him at least he will understand ur feeling and try to be that person that u want to love for real....i would have to say that i am not sorry for u and the reasons for his leavings are unknown...but i say that maybe u should try again....work it up to that point....it isnt easy but it does work out in the end for the most part....waiting is the hardest part on the relationship ppl get ansy and annoyed and fustrated but staying together and comeing thru that will break the barrier for that one true love u both have wanted for so long....i dont know if this helped or made any sence at all but it is true...i am married now and have a 9 month old daughter with the man i grew to love and respect! good things come to those who are patient!!!!!

jodi

...add on from what i said earlier....u need to grow up......that was harsh.....i feel very sorry for that guy......

jodi

>:@

This is how I feel about it. Maybe you loved him but wern't ready to edmit that you loved him. To find out if you really love someone takes time. And what you said isn't right or wrong. Anyone else that says something bad has no right to talk. They've all said stuff they didn't mean.

Everyone who said something mean or critisizing needs to shut up.

sadly i dont think ur doing the right thing because all he is doing is following a fake love and thats not fun just tell him the truth because if he finds out the hard way its gonna hurt alot more

Yes go back and say you love him, he will sure surely care, when he is canoodling with his girlfriend.

Maybe you can be his other girl. Maybe he can love both of you better.