(sigh) Too Shy to Tell

I like this boy who look hot and such, and I think he likes me back. Almost everytime I look at him, he keeps starring at me. I want to tell him I luv him, but I'm too shy and also because me (a boy) likng him....I'm afraid...please help! What can I do?

well...if you think he likes you, tell him you LIKE him. don't tell him you love him...because do you really? if you have nothing to lose (friendship ect.) then got for it.

I sorta know how you feel. I'm a girl (I know my profile says male) and I like girls. But I can walk up to most people and tell them very quietly I like them. But then, in my school no one really minds if you're gay, so unless where you are you can't afford rumour then you should tell him. Oh yeah, and check he'll be okay about it. I didn't with one and every time I see them is on;y slightly awkward.

Thx to you all...this really means a lot to me

I suggest you do not go for it.

The world is already tough and you asking out this boy, will lead to him beating the day lights off you. So I suggest you try subtlely flirting to see if he is gay or bi or intrested in that area.

You might want to just try talking to him, and then move it up to hanging around each other, then if you are comfortable and you really are sure of everything I'd suggest starting ur 'romance'

don't listen to homophobes, they r ignorant and most ppl who hit around 20 have long stopped acting like that

u should just begin to talk to him and get more comfortable with him

thx....Im starting togain courage, but yet not enough....

Talk.
Flirt.
Ask to hang out.
Do anything you POSSIBLY can, to get close to him and try to test him. Watch his body language.

Exactly...also know as metrosexual. A boy that is in touch with his feminime side, also like a gay sterotype.

Well . . I'm a girl, in love with a girl - who just happens to be kind of homophobic -_- She is/was one of my best friends - I told her and now we've kind of drifted a little (This was only last week) already she started talking to me again this morning - I think she might be pretending it never happened . . . Go for it - follow your heart!

Peace. [Sole]

A few years back, a guy once asked me out (I'm male, by the way). I'm not gay, and never have been. I politely refused him at the time.

Now, by the way, he's my very best friend. Oh. And he also has a girlfriend now, funnily enough. And I don't, gah!

It doesn't always turn out bad and awkward.

id be much more on the cautious side, something I have observed is hetrosexual men don't take homosexual compliments or forthcomings very well at all so I would suggest you be very careful upon broaching this subject with him.
Found out firstly is he bats for your team if you know what im saying because the last thing you want is to freak him out and have him get aggressive, offended or even worse ...violent.
Keep your feelings to yourself for now I suggest observe his body language and try and find out indirectly if hes gay as well and then work from there. If you want to meet other gay men try a support group or like in your local area and save yourself the emabarassment...

U know....these ideas r great!

Also, I heard he has a gf, but is about to break up with her cause she's a want it all, and she susspects that he is TRULY gay. Now what?

In your first post you stated he looked really "hot" and such, but really...

Is that all your thinking about?

Give us a little hint to his personality, really..

Oh no! I mean there's much more than that! Much more! He's kind, sweet, playful, always has a smile on his face and very friendly! that was the "and such" in the first post.

Oh no! I mean there's much more than that! Much more! He's kind, sweet, playful, always has a smile on his face and very friendly! that was the "and such" in the first post.

opps srry double post....