Am i too suspicious????

  • Amy
    18 years ago

    i think you guys are just shy around each other! Take it easy....try and bond with him.....

    have fun...make the most of your time together...and maybe things will lighten up!

    i read your poem about this situation....'Relationship Problems'...it was good :)

  • nazz
    18 years ago

    Make the most f it...tell him how you're feeling,,try not to fight. Try to put up with it and maybe time will make it less awkward between you two...from the poem i gather you guys have only been going out for a little while...give it time hun :)

  • adham
    18 years ago

    ahh...i suck in htis kinda thing....coz u know i fancy ya ;)

  • & i still ♥ him
    18 years ago

    maybe you're not comfy around him yet. dont raise ur suspicion so quickly, it could be a false alarm. there's a 2 year age diff. my boyfriend and i were best friends before we were together... how long have you known him? but that doesnt matter... u love him dont u?

  • Void
    18 years ago

    A little bit of suspicioun is alright... just don't over do it. The not so trusting part of you might get the better of you and maybe even him - I mean how would you feel if he were constantly thinking you were cheating on him?
    Relationships are (as unfortunate as it is for me to say - I know it's heard all over the place) held together mostly by communication. Nobody can read minds, and talking about some insecurities will let him know more about you - and help him to know how to deal with certain situations later... I know that's not very clear or specific, but the point here is that communication is vital.

    Which brings me to my next and last point... Conversation is also important. I mean if you can't talk to him or hold a conversation - what are you guys going to do later on in this relationship? If you can't speak about simple things that happened in your day, how can you expect to be truthful to eachother no matter what the cost?... I don't know, I just think that being able to talk to someone freely is also important. Try bringing up random things, ask him all sorts of questions....
    When i first started talking to my bf, that's all we did was ask eachother questions. Like 'whats your biggest fear' , 'what's the craziest thing you've ever done', 'if I asked you to wear bunny ears would you?' -- and I actually asked him that lol, though I'm a random person and so is my bf - so I don't know how you and your bf will handle it... But it was just an example :P. After a while of asking these questions, you'll get to know soo much about eachother. And the awkward silences you have now should disappear...
    If they don't, or if he doesn't stick around long enough for you to find out - then he probably did only want you for what's in your pants. But lets not get too depressing huh? .... Best of luck to you, stay happy :)