botted emotions

oh wow where do i begin. ive been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and 3 of those months hes been in jail. Through everything ive been there. Befor he went to jail i gave him all the money he wanted, all the love and commitment and all he done was used me and cheated but yet i still gave and cared. the whole time he was in lock up i was the only one to go see him,write him and keep money on his books. He gets out yesterday and comes straight to my house where he once lived with me, he walks in,no hug ,kiss,i miss you or anything...he says i need a shower..ok i let him take a shower and i wash his clothes. finally i get a small hug and kiss. so hes on my cell the whole time callin everybody,gets dressed and leaves.takes my cell without me knowing. ok has only called me once and hasnt bothered to to come see me.....of cousre i know to break up with him...done that earlier but why does it hurt so bad and how could someone wanna be with the people who got him put in jail instead of his so called girlfriend who has always been there?.....any advise?????

I came here a minute ago...Got distracted... And then my account signed out, so now that I'm re-signed in, I've come to put my answer to your post up... But it seems Bob has beaten me lol, and my words wouldn't have changed much. I agree 110% with him... Get someone who can love you just as much as you yourself can love. Get out of that one quick. I know it's hard... But, it's best.

Truth is, your cards are all turned up on the table. He knows you love him. Problem. The thing is, with arseholes, they'll then use that against you and turn all your emotions back onto yourself and make you think that you're to blame for the ruck. I know now that you're blaming yourself in someway aren't you!?

He's seen a good soul - which is the flip-side of himself and he'll just grind you into nothingness while he gets on being what he does best: being a f**king arsehole.

Get rid and get rid now and spare yourself a thousand tomorrows of pain and anguish. Good luck.

Bob:

'Never accept less than you yourself are willing to give' That is so good.