Player Ex/ Best Friend

  • Ariana Moreno Covarrubias
    18 years ago

    Okay first we were friends, then became Best Friends then more that Best Friends then we dated for 6 months and now that we're broke up and we don't talk that much cuz I moved (in the same city) to my aunt's house cause I fought too much with my stepmom after my dad died & right now I feel alone and could really use my Best Friend but since his soo busy I am left in the cold but when we do talk it's so great and he tells me he still loves me and misses me and I do him but then I hear from friends & him that he has other "friends with benifits" plus that he "messes around with them" & I tried warning him to be careful but now he is worried that one of them is pregnant & she had sex with this other guy and claimed he raped her when her mom found out they had sex so now he's afraid that she'll pull that on him even though she says she wouldn't and that she loves him. And right now I am caught in confusion cause I still have soo much feelings for him as a Best Friend & ex lover that I want to comfort him but then I want to yell at him for being so stupid and scream at him about my warning! Alls I want is to be with him but I don't need to be with anyone with all the drama in my life but we both feel alone and scared. I need him & he needs mebut I'm afraid that I will go back to him and go back into the same old thing plus I still am hurt and angry he would be so stupid! what should I do? I know I have asked many questions so thanks for reading all this and plz answer them.
    ~Ariana Moreno~
    p.s. Sorry so long!

  • stephanie18
    18 years ago

    alright let break this down step by step. you guys were friends then best friends then lovers. you dated for 6 months then broke up. after ya broke up ya didnt speak that much. well thats the risk some people especially bestfriends make when they decide to cross the friendship line and enter a romantic relationship. Me and you are almost in the same situation. I had a bestfriend and we crossed the line. while we were toghter he still had other girls and one did get pregnant. but she ended up having an abortion. Well my advice to you is to talk to him tell him that you miss your BESTFRIEND. I know he made a mistake but all humans do. The girl that claims to be pregnant by him could be lying. I mean you said she was having sex with other dudes so who knows who's the father. like i said tell him you want your bestfriend back. start by talking and being there for each other. and let the relationship grow naturally.. If your meant to go back togther then you will. I hope I helped!

  • Ariana Moreno Covarrubias
    18 years ago

    Yes you were thank-you! and I have told him I miss my best friend and he says the same so we have been tryin' to talk but with all these girls in his life and all this drama in mine our priorities mixed up. but yeah.