SweetGoodbyes.x3
18 years ago
Okay, here's the story, my girlfriend (Alysha) n my best friend (Becca) want to kill themselves, I understand what the feel as I used to cut n I was in serious depression once before but now it's my friends that are going through it, these are the people that feel like family to me n one day I hope Alysha could be a part of my family but I've just ran out of things to say to them. They've given up any and every hope of every getting better of happier again n I just don't know anymore. I come on this site alot of times n I was hoping that someone out there could help me, help me persuade them that they have a full life left or something... any suggestion, please! My mind is totally pulling a blank because I'm so worried for them n I'm so scared to leave them alone for five minutes now, because even in five minutes, it could all end.... I'm ran out of words to say... help me please, anyone! |
Kymberly
18 years ago
All I can tell you is youmight know what there saying but you dont know what there feeling so tell someone who knows how to evaluate someone like maybe they really are consideering it or maybe they need some attention so tell your parents to call them and warn theres and im sure there parents will get them the help they need and you might think they will be mad at you and they probably honestly will but tell them your sorry you just love them and cant live with out them i really dont know what else to tell you but *good luck* and hope everything works out for you! |
Farren
18 years ago
The only words that come to my mind is that SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM. Everyone goes through things and has problems but a person must find their own way to cope. I have lived a crazy life and many ppl tell me they would have already killed themselves...all I say is no cuz I wouldnt be here today being able to say damn I am ready for anything...bring it on. EVERY situation in life is there for a reason as is EVERY person. Things dont just happen. Tell them to let it make them stronger and a better person NOT weaker. Let me know how it goes. I have alot of compassion for ppl who want to end their lives probally cuz I cant comprehend how horrible they must feel in the inside where nobody else can see, touch, or even begin to feel. I am sorry and wish u all happiness soon!!!! |
beyond help
18 years ago
umm...i think you should talkk to them about how you have been through it yourself but you have gotten over it and things like that |
~world~of~perfect~lies~and~honest~eyes
18 years ago
having people who are suicidal who are also close to you is not a great place to be! i know well enough. it drains everything out of you doesnt it? my advice is to just tell them that you cant keep repeating the same words to them as they will become meaningless in their eyes. tell them that you care a lot and want to be there for them. dont take everything on yourself, make sure you have someone close to you that you can share yourr thoughts with. its not fair on yourself to take all this on by yourself, it may get you seriously down again, then you may not be any use to them ir yourself. |
Lying To Live
18 years ago
ok well all i know is that when your suicidal you know what you need to hear to stop you having those thoughts....say the things you wished people would have said to you when you werent feeling great either ....spend as much time as you can with them and they will realise that you care more then they know...dont say things like ill miss you... but i care its so cliche and it doesnt tsound geniune at all |