Highschool...

  • Kymberly
    18 years ago

    I'm currently a freshman in highschool I thought I had alot of friends but I got into this fight at school and when i got suspeded I found out that all my friends trashed talked me to upper classman and only TWO friends stood up for me now I got to school and it's awkward and like these girls put posters up about me saying how i look like a rat and how im a slut and now i found out my boyfriend likes this girl who hates me I don't know it seems that everyone hates me and im an outkast will it get better and is there anything i can do?

    *Please no sarcastic comments, keep them to yourself because I don't need it*

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    I'd like to tell you that it will all get better, But im not sure, I kinda went through the same thing, Cept it was me and an old best friend, We nearly got into a punch up, But all my old friends just have kept there distance now, So i kinda know how you feel. But hey if they were true friends they wouldnt choose someone else over you..or get into the middle of it. Hope that helped abit. Try and cheer up though =]

    natz x0x

  • Lauren
    18 years ago

    it will get better. eventually.
    being an outcast isn't as bad as it seems. you learn to find out that the people you WANTED to hang out with, are really immature and not worth your time. so these girls that are doing this to you are only doing it because they're insecure about themselves. they might even envy you. but stay strong. keep your head up. and don't give a crap about what people say to you. if you don't show anger they'll get bored with bothering you.
    good luck.
    lauren

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    *Keeps sarcastic comments to self*

    Hey, um firstly I'm just trying to translate some of that into like english. I mean not american. Aargh schools are different in america. Freshman.... Umm..... New at scondary school? Okay well I actually have no idea how to help, but I guess just stay strong and try not to pay any attention to girly bitchyness. The two friends who stuck up for you seem nice enough so stick with them for a while.
    Sorry for the crappy advice =D
    - Polly

    PS - Ice cream is yummy

  • Void
    18 years ago

    Things Always Get Better.
    Your situation does seem to be quite the crabby story, but you know what, things always get better and it's all in how you look at it. Right now, you're caught up in all the bad shtuff... Look at it this way. Since that happened, you've been able to weed out the bad 'friends' and find yourself two great ones. Keep those ones close to you - and don't let the others bring you down, for you know from this experience that they just aren't worth it.
    When this is all over, and you're back up with a smile on your face, you'll see that you had nothing to worry about inthe first place. Every cloud has silver lining.
    Best of luck with everything,and keep your chin up :)

  • Farren
    18 years ago

    It will get better... I promise!!! I was criticized for dating outside my race...my freshman year. Sophomore year is so different. Your so called friends were only trying to look cool at your expense. U dont need friends like that. O n dont fight at school did that too...not smart!! Had u not gotten in a fight this may have never happened. Not trying to be mean but I dont try to sugar coat ne thing. Best advice I can give is learn from ur mistake and carry ur head HIGH. Oh and just know it could have always been worse.

  • Not just a metaphorical genius
    18 years ago

    k talandor, you need to lighten up. i feel the same way you do but don't be so mean. and my solution to highschool hell was homeschool. i had a huge fight with my best friend and after that i didn't have anyfriends. maybe you can find some friends besides them. don't give up hope.