am i just dwelling on the past??

  • Kirstie
    18 years ago

    so my bf broke up with me in almost 7 months ago. i guess im pretty lucky, because he and i now go to different schools, so we dont see eachother everyday. but we do still hang out with the same group of friends as we did before, so i see him occasionally on the weekends. and everytime i do i fall for him all over again. i cant see to make myself stop liking him. now it isnt as bad, im not sad all the time because of him. but ever so often, when i see him, i see those crystal blocks with the wire designs inside that i used to buy him all the time, when i hear the songs we used to sing together. then im a mess the rest of the day.. i dont know what im supposed to do. i need some help. please

  • Lauren
    18 years ago

    well...it just takes time. as you said, you're not sad all the time anymore. just when you see/hear something that reminds you of him. thats a step forward. eventually you won't feel those feelings for him. well, you may, but they won't be so strong.
    like they say,you can never forget the one you love..
    one day you'll meet somebody amazing. and you're gonna be so happy with him.
    hope i helped. and good luck.
    lauren

  • Miss Pipp
    18 years ago

    love lasts forever
    i know how you feel
    you should tell him that you still love him=]
    xoXox pip

  • imyours4now
    18 years ago

    oh man...u'll get over him, its going to take time, but if you two don't get back together, then its a sign thAT u really have to get over him. coz what if u tell him that ulove him and he doesn't reciprocate?