Can time heal all pains ???

  • chavii
    18 years ago

    Most says time is best healer of all kinda pains , but many left scars which even time cant erase , what u ppl think ?

  • Lauren
    18 years ago

    time can heal some things, but they won't go away completely. as for heartbreak, time can make it less-painful, but it's still there.
    i guess it depends on what is being healed.
    thats my opinion XD
    lauren

  • Once an Angel
    18 years ago

    Sometime time is the only medication for pain, the only help you can give yourself is to let time go by. Not everything will heal 100% all the time, but time can be the best aid possible for a lot of situations. Yes, many things leave scars, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually However, that is how we gain wisdom. That is why wisdom is so hard to have, because it is based on experience and not just knowledge. I wish I could tell you that everything will be perfect, but I have always prefered the truth to lies therefore I can't tell you that. Hugs baby, you'll be okay. It may still hurt, you might not forget, but you can end up being okay.

    -Tainted Mikochan

  • Kenshin
    18 years ago

    Time can never heal all pains but it serves as a pain relifer, as time passes you tend to start to forget the pain, or at least make sence of it, and it stops hurting you that much, but the scars are always there, no matter how long time goes by, it's still there

  • chavii
    18 years ago

    Thank you friends for replies.

    Yes i too belive ,time is best healer for our pains , At times we have no other option but to leave everything on time .And scars which time cant fade ....Tainted Mikochan has beautifully said "many things leave scars, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually However, that is how we gain wisdom. "
    WE shud learn n leave with it for good.

    Regards
    chavii.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Someone's been listening to too much Evanescence now havn't they.

  • Not just a metaphorical genius
    18 years ago

    pain doesn't just go away as I have recently found out. something bad happened to me when i was little and i didn't remember it until last year so time didn't heal that scar, it only made it worse. i remembered being molested and the pain i felt then resurfaced.my mind had blocked that from me. and right now im going through a soul search which is stuck in depression. so i don't know what to tell you but live life to the fullest until you die

  • Psymon
    18 years ago

    I suppose time heals but at the moment I'm awaiting that one too. Lost too much last year, almost made me run away from what remained of my life. Now I hang on, remember that I am strong no matter what other people throw my way, it's always other people isn't it? The world is a beautiful place, I focus upon that. I know the really deep scars never leave, always there on the edge... but peace can come, like love we have to allow it to flow through, unforced.
    Power to you, love and light.
    Psymon

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    Time may heal all pain... but time does not cover up all scars...

    there are things we get over and make it through, but that doesnt mean those situations do not remain with us. The pain is always there, we have just learned to deal with it, and let it subside.

  • sarah
    18 years ago

    I agree pain neva goes away, I lost my mum 2 yrs ago then my bf 9 mnths ago it aint getting any easier 4 me.

  • chavii
    18 years ago

    psymon , good to know u facing life bravely .

    Sarah , hope things work out for ya , stay strong !

    Take care
    chavii.

  • sarah
    18 years ago

    thanx hun x

  • Psymon
    18 years ago

    Thanks... yesterday was really hard and yet I'm still here... I've put this in my quotes from Anais Nin but I believe it's a lot older... -We never see things as they are - we see things as we are - just about sums it up really.
    Go well.

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    really great quote!!!

  • Alex Marlatt
    18 years ago

    Time doesn't heal crap. It is the way you rationalize the pain that heals. If in fifty years I'm still saying "it's because you're worthless and no one will ever love you" then of course nothing will have healed, I'm to busy putting myself down. If in two weeks, years, or even decades I rationalize that it wasn't my fault then I will inevitably feel better. Just keep telling yourself that it's all cool and you it will be. If not, then bloody well suffer.
    Good day - Alex

  • Kalika
    18 years ago

    Yes, but only if you want it to.

    Kalika

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    time relieves pain a bit sometimes. but it depends what kind of pain, and whether or not we want to and are ready to let go. Even if we let it go, if we start living in memories, the pain will just come back once again.

    I don't think time actually 'heals' pain, it just allows us to accept the pain gradually, and eventaully it will become a scar. Scars don't actually hurt, they become a part of us, and we often learn from getting hurt. We can accept and forgive, but we won't ever forget. Scars can not be erased, unfortunately.

    -kelsie

  • Variance Severin Knight
    18 years ago

    time can heal some pains, but some pains are too deep that they will never heal. believe.. i'm going through it. but with help and plenty of therapy, maybe almost everyone can get over their pains.