Big mistake??

ok, i dunno but if u guys care, i just wanted to share this. Umm, idk if he was actually my bf, we talkd to each other the way couples did, told each other we loved each other, and that we were fo real. I loved him, i really did, i didn't expect to fall for him. Thing is, evrything was going so great...then suddenly it all went down the drain. The fact that he was from the US and im from aust didn't help. Idk, i felt that he was gettn tired of waiting around, even though he still said he loved and missed me. So i decided to end it...my problem is, what if i made a stupid judgement, and that he's actually willing to wait for me?? then all my sacrifices has gone to waste. Its been weeks now, he hardly ever talks to me, and it saddens, coz he always promised that he'll always be there for me...hah, what a lie...

confused :$

Well you sort of answered your own quetion. You obviously don't think he will stick around you said and I quote " he always promised that he'll always be there for me...hah, what a lie...". If you aren't sure about it then most likely its not going to work. Long distance relationships are very hard and unless you have a lot of patience and are able to trust one another it will not work. Although it may not seem like it now, Long distance relationships are much harder when you are younger. And this is because as you get older you start to build up your own life, you live on your own and only have the responsibility of yourself. And so it is easier to move and what not to be with the other person. Being 16 you still have some years ahead of you to get to that stage. You are looking at nearly 3 years of waiting. I am not saying it can't work because it very well can. I am proof of that. I am sure you have thought of this already but if you haven't then here it is. Goodluck with it : )

thanks, but the thing with him is that he seemed to really understand me. and i find that now a days its so hard to find a guy who can understand. And with that quote, it sucks, coz i think he's not talkn to me coz i ended it. But was i i to do?? i didn't like feeling like a fool. thanks for the advice.

He understands you because you're having a phone conversation..You'll start to notice that a lot of guys understand you much better on the phone than in person. Because all they can do is talk to you. They can't touch you or kiss you. So it would seem they understand you so well because all he CAN do is listen to you and respond to you. You don't have to feel like a fool its only how you feel. And if he was really interested in you something like this wouldn't stop fim from talking to you.

actually we didn't talk in the phone. it was all strictly emails. he'd send me emails so long, i always loved reading them. plus we were friends to begin with, we got close before we became one. Now its all gone. which really sucks. and words described how he felt, many guys dont know how to express his emotion.

i had a relationship like that. we never talked on the phone or met. but we sent pictures over email.
and you feel like you did the wrong thing...but wouldn't you rather have a relationship where you see eachother daily? who can SHOW you they love you. in time you'll realize that. but as for now you can either dwell in the past or get over him and find someone amazing. i hope that didn't come out rudely.
well good luck && i hope i helped
lauren

Yeah i guess your right, but ight now everyone i see i compare to him. which is pretty stupid. Plus guys in australia...they r so up themselves, theyr good to be friends with, but its like they still need to grow up.