how i feel...

im the kinda girl that gives in to love and who wheres her heart on her sleeve...plus cheesy romance novels are my guilty plessure. :-)...when i love i love hard and always seem to be the one getting hurt after every thing...even if im the one to break things off...any advice to a crybaby?

Firstly from what you said, you are a person who wants your romances and love life, like that of the novels.

So I suggest you look in a mirror, and say to yourself that life isn't like that.

omigod i feel you. i broke up with my ex and i'm the one whos hurt and heartbroken! sad stuff!
i cry a lot too. i'm very sensitive... when i was "hurt" after the break-up, i cried myself to sleep almost every night :(
but dont call yourself a crybaby.. becuz everyone cries over a lost relationship or something at least once in their lives... and when you have a pro about being hurt and all... the best advice i can give you is: get over it. everything is ok at the end. and if its not ok, then its not the end! so if its not ok, know that theres still supposed to be an ending. if you have to just sit there and wait, then DO IT. its gonna be worth it ... cuz everything will work out good, thats a guarantee. :)

everything happpens for reasons an people come and go in our lives contantly!
and he is one of those people like many who are gonna come in your life and out after awhile...
yeah maybe u do kinda want your love life to be like the romance novels but hey everyone wood love a relationship like that but youll see soon things aint like that in the real world sweet!!

yeah you will get over it sweet! when your ready to let go and get over it!!
thats the best way sweet! let yourself cry it out of your system .. at end of the day its a lost relationship and they are the worst really... but youll be ok after awhile sweet! it took me just over 6 months to get over my ex! yes a v v v v v v long time... but he didnt let me go in first place...

but dont be ashamed you cry over it! you do what you have to do to get over it! remember when one door shuts another door opens!!!

take care yeah!
xx