Why does it have to be me...

why are my friends always saying its "ok" when it really isn't when I'm sad and worked up for example my 2 friends just started smoking weed about a month ago and I said its not ok and I said that stuff can kill you and they said who cares and I started feeling really sick to my stomach and I haven't been myself since then b/c I'm really conserened about my friends and well my b/f has worked me through it and has tried to help me but it doesn't seem like my life is the same anymore? I've been really sad lately and can't get my mind off of the smoking and well I just need some help why I feel this way does anyone know why I feel this way. Please Help in anyawy that you can please!!!

Always Sad Now
:( Amanda :(

A few extra commas in there would be nice! But then again then it would be a rant would it.... :p

Firstly, you obviously know how wrong it is what your friends are doing, so dont whatever you do start. Have you got any other friends who arent doing this and you could talk to about it? I think that would perhaps help? As for why do you feel this way, well its only natural to be annoyed and frustrated at your friends. I don't know what to say to help you, just try and stay strong :S

- Polly x

I guess I could talk to the one friend that i have his girlfriend, but i don't want to get in the middle of it b/c she is not suppose to know thanks for your kind words

I have several friends who smoke all kind of things. I don't do it myself though. The thing is, even though they've gone through shit and had it miserable because of it they don't stop. Because in the moment they feel alive, atleast that is what they told me.

If your friends don't care than you should just let them screw up their lives. But if you really care for them than show them a little support and tell them its wrong what they're doing. If nothing of the above works you could always threaten to not be their friend anymore...

Well, it's different for all, so I can't really tell you what to do about it. It depends on what kind of people your friends are. Just don't get into the same shit as them, that would be a utter and total defeat.

And for the record. My friends still smoke, but they never do it when I'm around. I've told them that I'll never ever talk to them again if they do it infront of me or before they see me. I don't want to be apart of it, if they want to ruin their lives than I can't stop them...