I need some really big HELP (both guysand gurls)

OK... the love of my life of 3 years... is leavign for the marines intwo weeks and i dont knwo how i am going to get through and how iam going to live without him and if he gets deported over seas i just dont know how i could handle that! sooo does anyone have any ideas or encouraging words for to help me throught this really hardtime!!

amber

amber...i went trough the same thing about 5 months ago...but he wasnt my boyfriend. he was my best friend and we were starting to get REALLY close if u know wut i mean. he had a girlfriend who he told me he dumped to get wit me...next thing u know he's getting deported. we always knew there was something there between us, i mean when i was in 9th and he was in 11th we'd always run into eachother in the halls and look at eachother from a distance but never talked. then one day after he graduated he told me how he had seen me in skool and he thought i was pretty, we got so close, he became my best friend, and we both knew there was always that feeling! but he had to go to the marines...which does suck i will admit! u have to just keep in touch with him. we always write letter to eachother, check how the other one is doing. he can't check his e-mails over there so i do this thing where i e-mail him when im thinking of him nd when he comes back his inbox is packed...lol! if u really love him ull wait for him!! maybe ull doubt urself once in a while but if its love then it'll work out! keep me posted on wuts happening!

Well - just keep in touch with him - he will have access to a phone all the time, and often a computer as well :) Again, write letters etc. Talk about him with your friends! It may get them a little annoyed if you talk about him every minute of the day, but it's good to talk about your feelings with your friends - especcially if he's far away, it will make you feel a lot better when there are people there telling you that he will be back :)

Peace. [Sole]

Amber *hugs* It's hard, but you'll get over it... it's not like he's leaving you forever. IF it's his dream, and you love him, support him, comfort him. You can call him, write to him. Remember, all you need is love....