Your definition of love?

  • Emily Eaton
    18 years ago

    Hey guys and girls, quite a cheesy topic yes i know but just like to see what people think love is all about and what it means to them! Post ur thoughts! Thanks :)

  • Laura Ash
    18 years ago

    Wanting to be with someone for the rest of your life. Putting them in front of yourself. Nothing matters as long as your with that person and you'd do anything to make the person happy even if it's not with you. Willing to compromise, talk, trust, etc. That person is the world to you and nothing is more important to you than that person. When I said "anything" I reallly meant anything. Even sacrifice your life so that person can live their life through. I agree with Bob. I'd feel so much better if I didn't have to care or love even though I'd miss out the good things.

  • Sole
    18 years ago

    Love is:

    Forgetting everything when you're with the person you love

    Hating yourself when they don't know you love them

    Considering suicide, every second they're not by your side

    Peace. [Sole]

  • Psymon
    18 years ago

    LOL's Bob, very well put... Love for me is an energy that we allow to flow through us, from time to time we link with a fellow being who reflects that energy our way...
    It's also allowing the one you 'love' to be themselves, of course if being themselves means stepping on your toes... perhaps the mirror has becoome dirty or even broken...
    This quote is from a book called I Come As A Brother - Bartholomew
    'What you consider love is instead a movement of attraction, and with attraction comes replusion - Love is not something that goes on and off like a lightbulb... - that is emotion'.
    love and light

  • livefreebright
    18 years ago

    undefinable.

  • Emily Eaton
    18 years ago

    Wow! guys thats awesome, loved your comment on love being like the waves upon the ocean Bob...fab! love it, cheers. BEAUTIFUL!

  • Psymon
    18 years ago

    Don't you mean indefinable Kim... sorry the pedant rises... lol

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    Love is a golden liquid that fills our vacant heart. It can turn pitch black, once we envy or dislike someone we love.

    Love is the un-wavered sickness, that has many side-effects and one cure.

  • xAmx
    18 years ago

    theres many different kinds of loves... like a mother's love, a boyfriend's love, etc...

  • PooHbeaR
    18 years ago

    love is like a mountain... hard to climb, but once you get to the top, the view is beautiful. :)

  • Mark
    18 years ago

    Love is.. when you are devoted to someone.. at the thought of them, they make you smile.. They make you feel 'special' to be with and to talk to.. they're a reason why you're living.. they're just.. the greatest.

    Basicaly.. there's soo much but it's hard to just say it in words, that's all..

  • Ele
    18 years ago

    Love to me is when I can only sleep well when im in his arms

  • DeAnna
    18 years ago

    love.. when you really care for someone and decide that you want to write a poem about them, and you search through the dictionary endlessly looking for words to describe it, but never being able to succeed in that. to always be speechless in words that are worthy of the greatness you feel about someone.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    love is
    laughs
    cuddles
    kisses
    tears
    arguement
    making up...
    spending non stop timetogether..
    feeling a warmth inside for someone you can tell them you love them over and over...
    them able to tell you that they love you.
    that youll do everything an anything for them...

    trust each other
    and knowing he/she will be there anytime or day!
    and holding hands
    falling asleep together with smiles while in his arms..
    see each other and its the instant smile....

    lol k k that enough lol o it cant really be defned coz everyones love is differenT!

  • Smurnuff
    18 years ago

    Tome, love is more than being able to kiss and hug, its being able to communicate with one another, becoming best friends. u gotta b able to tell eachother everything w/o having any fear. love is being able to trut him/her enough to give them ur heart nd soul nd noe they wont take advantage of it. love is having ur heart stolen by the opposite sex

  • nicole
    18 years ago

    I think love is absolutly wonderful and no matter how much it hurts, I would never not want to know what it's like. It can hurt you more than anything but be the best thing you'll ever feel. Its hard to describe or explain. But when you're in love, you just know. You know what love it but no one can describe it that someone not in love can understand. The best way I can say what love is to me is .. Him

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    To love is to live and to live is to love

  • BrokenxLaughs
    18 years ago

    Sole...I definately agree with you. THats the way I'd put it...

  • Sole
    18 years ago

    Hehe - Killing yourself when they do know and don't love you back -_-.

    I guess it's understanding really. And not showing the sadness that you're not with them - just being glad that theyre happy. Though that can be tough.

    Peace. [Sole]

  • dani
    18 years ago

    being happy when with that person no matter what.... you can be having the worst day imaginable yet when you see that person your world seems perfect....your always there for each other no matter what, and you are not judged by your partner on your past or opinions, they love you for being you. there for you through thick and thin, and you can see yourself getin old with them

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    I think another word that constitutes the definition of love for me is sacrifice, have kids you'll know what I mean. Its a love on a completely different level to what is shared with a partner, its unconditional and you never get the pleasure of experience such love until you have children of your own and then you realise its all about them, no longer you, you live a life for them, not for yourself, they become the air breath and reason you awake every morning ...sacrificing all your hopes and dreams so they can reach there own...

  • Sean
    18 years ago

    Loving is to give yourself completly and only, and for that to be returned.

  • Variance Severin Knight
    18 years ago

    love is a wonderful thing to experience,

    love is pain,
    love is life

    love can lift us all into another world that we did not know exsisted. it makes one soar to new heights and you find you would do anything for that person, you would even protet them with your life because you can not think of life without them. its wonderful.

  • Sole
    18 years ago

    Wow, Dani - when I read your answer . . I definately agree. Though in my perfect world - I wouldn't want to grow old with that person. I want to live a happy few years with them, and then sacrifice myself for them . . odd I know. But I would rather take a bullet for them, and die at 20 knowing they love me, than die at 80, with the risk of not being with them, if they died of old age or a disease before me.

    Peace. [Sole]

  • flirtaholic2010
    18 years ago

    ZACH!!

  • Blair
    18 years ago

    the complete and total oppostite of JAYME FERRO

  • Blair
    18 years ago

    when you find

  • Fighter (Ariane L.)
    18 years ago

    love is when your heart skips a beat whenever that special person enters a room.
    love is when you know someone is in the room, without having seen them.
    love is when silence speaks louder than words.
    love is when you look into that person's eyes and melt on the spot.
    love is when your skin burns simply by touching that special person.
    love is when your knees weaken by his/her sight.
    love is when you hate every second away from that person.

    love is love... so many ways to explain it. so many ways to experience it.

  • nandini
    18 years ago

    love is the wonderful feeling u cant express...
    love is all that can make u dream,laugh,cry,live....

    but love is also the curse that can kill u....

    love is love but beyond love...

  • Leah
    18 years ago

    hunni love is all about sacrifice...

  • ♥**KaylaElisabeth**
    18 years ago

    Love is A risk! thats what i think..

    ~ Kayla

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Love is the mutual understanding of two hearts. You can't have one without the other. If he doesn't love you back, it's just infatuation. If you both love eachother, then it's love.

  • LoveDontLetMeGo
    18 years ago

    depends what kind of love.

    -- the funny feeling in the pit of ur stomach is future love.
    -- the floating on air feelng is new love.
    -- the heart racing a hundred miles an hour is NOW love.
    -- the single tear drop is almost- done love.
    -- the waterworks are lost love.
    -- the gentle smile and fond memories are remembered love.
    -- and next person u meet in the street COULD be future love!!! well, u asked!!! bye!!!

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    Love:

    1. Exciting like a rollarcoaster
    2. Painful as a thorn
    3. Twinkle in the eye
    4. pink on cheeks
    5. Smile and laugh
    6. Hard
    7. commitment
    8. Responsibility, and Respect

  • David Paul
    18 years ago

    a term used in tennis

  • CiNDY iS BAkk
    18 years ago

    Well my definition is:
    1)When they are always
    2)By your side,
    3)Make you feel protected and good
    4)Telling you all these nice things that make you feel special
    5)Always thinkin about them when you wake up and before you sleep and every time your with 'em and when your not!
    6)Always telling you they love you!
    7)NEVER HURT OR HARM YOU IN ANY WAY!
    8)RESPECT YOU AND YOUR DECISIONS!
    ~There's more but that's all I can come up with~
    ***Cindy***

  • cari
    18 years ago

    ive never been in love i dont think, but a very good friend of mine has, i asked him about it a while ago and he said:
    its when you cant live without that person, when you NEED that person and that you feel empty without them.

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    There is no great explanation to what love is just like there is no scientific meaning to life. Love... you just can't explain it.