confused..

Okay. So last night me and this guy talked on the phone for a little over 4 hours. ( i know not that long ) anyways.. he told me had a secret but he wouldnt tell me. I bugged and bugged him until he finally told me. He told me that he liked me a lot. I told him that I liked him too... and I have for a while. We almost hooked up before, but he didnt think that I was over my ex and he didnt want in a relationship where his girlfriend was still in love with someone else.. which is understandable. But yeah... when we told eachother we liked one another.. the conversation kinda drifted off to where I told him to go to bed cuzz it was 3am and he needed to go to bed... as he has track at 9am the next day. He told me he didnt want to go because he didnt want to leave me.. and my voice and talking to me was more important then sleep. I thought that was cute but I felt guilty keeping up.. so I told him I was gonna hang up if he didnt.. cuzz he needed sleep.. so finally I got him to hang up first. The question I have is: why didnt he ask me out?? What can I do to show him that I really really like him and I want to be something more then friends??
Advice Please!!

from what you said...
it sounds like you did show him that you wanted to be more than friends by saying you liked him a lot for a long time.
but...to show that you're over your ex...hang out with this guy whenever you can. don't talk about your ex. be 'flirty'. when your ex is around, act as if he's not...
not quite sure what else to say, but i think you got the picture...
hope everything goes good
-lauren

Well, I've been thru that before, so luckily I can maybe help you.

If he likes you, and you like him. And he admitted it. You have to show him that you are totally 'over' with youre ex.

Also, he said he didn't want to leave your voice. That kinda tells you he's 'addicted' haha. Youre his anti-drug.

I say, you ask him if he wants to hang out, go see a movie, hang at the mall. Then while yous are walking, bump into his hand a couple times and he might get the idea of holding hands..

Maybe that'll give him a hint, and he MIGHT ask you out.

**It worked for me, if It doesn't, I'm sorry, I'm just giving you my advice and past experience.

Good Luck!!

♥Chelsey