Was it right for him to do this?

Ok me and this guy had been going out for three months and three weeks and then we broke up after this trip we went on together (we didnt do anything) On the trip he found out there was this girl (a total slut) and he found out that she liked him and he knew she would do anything w/ him (or any boy)...so a couple days after the trip he broke up w/ me...and it really hurts me to think about them to together and he acts like nothin had happened...like we never broke up except the fact that them two together and all over each other...and they got caught doin sumthin so they cant be together anymore and ive been hearing that he wants to get back w/ me and i cant picture me not going back out w/ him and i think its wrong that he hurt me and knew it and still actually thinks that i will go w/ him...i just want your opinion(s)...

Four months. Good for you. Shows you're dedicated.

But forget him.

No it wasn't right, and, quite frankly, getting back together with him would be an abysmal mistake on your part. Just my opinion.

Kalika

well, cheating is never right. But if he knew and was sorry, would you give him another chance to hurt you? do you think he will? personally though, I think its not healthy for you to go back with him even if you wanted to. But if he loves you enough, he'll probably change for you. You have to think about it though, you'll probably be hurt anyways, but which hurts more and which hurts less? is it worth it to hurt more?

-kelsie

^I disagree. Don't think about it, just forget him. Don't be the one he comes back to only when he gets lonely.

hey well we went to wash cars today w/ my youth group today and we wash cars and everything.....he flirted with me the whole time.....and i dont know what to tell him i mean everytime i look into his eyes and we flirt i fall for him again......and i just dont want to b/c evertime im not around him it dont bother me b/c i convince myseft im over him and i just want to tell him to stop.......i am really needing some help

By forgiving him, you're saying to him that what he did was 'ok'. Therefor he sees every right to do it again.

My quick advice: don't be silly, move on. Otherwise you'll hurt more in the future.

thanks everyone on their advice so far....anymore advice........

Can I say anything that hasn't been said? It was wrong of him to do that - and you should forget him and move on. But if you love him, and you really want to get back together with him, then take it slowly. Become good friends with him (Unless you already are) And make sure he knows that was he did was wrong. Oh, and don't forgive him. Let him apologise - but never say, it's ok or anything like that . . . At the end of the day:

1) You should follow your heart, not the common beliefs of others.

2) It's unlikely you will take much notice of this - because nobody can imagine what you feel inside - therefore, we can't even really have an opinion anyway . . .

Peace. [Sole]

Yea don't go back with him, cause once he finds another slut, he'll be back to doing the same thing over again.

I dont think you should go back out with him. you can find someone so much better who wont do that to you. and if this guy has done it once, more than likely, he'll do it again. trust me, ive found that out the hard way. but thats just my opinion. the best advice i can give you is to just follow your heart.

That's selfish, shallow and cruel.

Any boy who would leave you for someone who would "do stuff" with him is not worth being hurt over.
I know you want to get back with him, but trust me, if he can do this to you once, who said he won't do it again?
But that's my opinion. I wish you all the best.

orange daisy.