i've never been more lost..

can some of you guys help me out a little? i can use it.. so here goes...
my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a month now, and last week was the first time that we had made out or whatever. well, he's one of the most polite person i've ever met in my life, and i joke about everything with him all the time. well i was joking about him getting 'in my pants' to get his keys, and he actually did, and i let him. he ended up trying to have sex with me on that same day. i stopped him, and then he seemed mad at me, but he still apologized and said that he loved me for the first time. now, i'm faced with: should i just accept his apology and let it slide and hope it doesn't happen again? or not let it happen again and break up with him? guys, i'm scared and so lost.

Oh God, umm..well i don't want to be cold but you should let him go. Any guy that tries to get in your pants once is bound to try it again. If you're not ready, tell him that and well i would let him go. Ask yourself this, is it worth staying with a guy if he's going to pressure you into having sex?

wow.. yeah, guys. but ya know... he's the only guy who has actually stopped when i told him to, and that really means a lot to me.. i mean, after having so many people just force me to do it, and then having him stop and sort of be okay with it, i just have this wierd feeling about him now. i mean, i want to trust him now because of it, but i feel like i can't in a way. i still don't know.. i really do have feelings for him.

I think that you should give him another chance and acceot his apology and stay with him. I mean not to be rude but it is kinda your fault because you let your joking give him the wrong idea. And I don't think he was mad at you I think that maybe he was more confused because he probaly thought that by that joke that you made that you wanted to have sex. So think about it, if he is a nice to you as you say then you should return the favor, and accept his aplogy!

I hate to be the devils advocate, but what he did was perfectly normal at your age.
Most guys in their teens think about sex, dream about sex, or even imagine sex non-stop. They don't understand why girls want to wait; trust me, this is from personal experience.
Most of them grow out of it, but not all of them.
You've got to realise that sooner or later, sex will be a big issue in your relationship. So, until then, you've got to sit him down, think of what you're going to say, and make it clear that you do not want to have sex with him yet, and until you're ready, there's no way that it's happening.

I remember the quote "girls fall in love before they have sex, guys fall in love after it." Think about it...

The amount of times I've been called frigid for not wanting to have sex is appauling...