BUT HE IS SOOOOO UGLY!!!!

My friend is going out with this guy and he is sooo Ugly (everyone tells her that) and it is true but she really likes him. She has this ex that likes her still and they where at one point in love and now she doesn't know what to do well she wants to stay with the ugly boy and I think she should get bac with her ex...I reilze looks arent the only thing but how do I give her good unbias advice??

HELPP

Good for her, to be able to look past somebodys physical appearance, especially when other people are bugging her about it. If she wants to stay with the guy she is with now, then don't be so shallow, just leave her alone.

i think you should let her stay with the so called "ugly" one if shes happy u should be happy too..looks arnt everything.. and im glad she relizes that..you need to let her make her own mistakes i know shes your friend and all but by telling her that her boyfriend is ugly isnt gona help her any..take it from experience..i dated someone rele "ugly" before...but besides him not having the best looks he had a really great heart which is really all that matters in a relationship..

I agree with bob 100%! I'm a person who's considered to be extremely pretty, but I’ve dated some men who weren't what the world might call handsome! Many of my friends that are in the 'popular' crowd used to bug me about my selections. But truthfully.... one day.. Hopefully... You'll stop considering men as handsome trophies but as beautiful souls. Sometimes when I've been dating such a sweet not so handsome man... I start falling in love with their personality and in the end I end up seeing them 10 times cuter, because their personalities are shining through! I've dated many of the "HOT FOOTBALL PLAYERS" and realized that most of them couldn't carry on a conversation about anything I cared about.... In the end one-day through trial and error you'll learn that looks truly don't matter! In the end this isn't really somthing that anyone can explain to you... this sort of wisdom comes with age and understanding.

Which ever one treats her best.

another old thread. original poster can open a new one if she still wants feedback.