I NEED HELP!!

well, i'm kind of new to this thing.. i just registered like.. a few minutes ago.. but i saw these discussions and i decided to share some of my pros.. and if anyone is willing to give me at least a little piece of advice, i'd be happy to accept it :)
anyway, so heres my story:
i was friends with this guy for a long time.. not really long.. just around 4 years... and well.. i became friends with him cuz i found out he had a crush on me or whatever and ... well, me and him just kind of... became close friends and stuff. after a while he asked me out.. and we went out for a while. i dunno why, but little by little i kind of stopped liking him.. i wanted to be just friends... so i asked him if we could be just friends... he agreed and he promised me that he wont be mad at me or anything and that we would stay friends forever.. so anyway, i was pretty happy that he wasnt mad or whatever.. then for the next month i started noticing that he was treating me kind of in a rude way and being ignorant and stuff. i got curious.. i asked him why the heck he was acting that way, and i reminded him what he promised.. that night he said "good bye" to me as in "we're not friends anymore".. i was really heart-broken becuz i really wanted to stay friends. but i decided that it was his decision and his problems. then after a couple of months i realized that i really missed him and i wanted him back really bad. i decided to talk to him and the conversation was soooo useless becuz he didnt accept me back and now i'm really lost... i miss him so much and i love him a LOT as a friend.. but he doesnt cherish that and i dunno what the heck i'm supposed to do now! i need help becuz i want him back soooo bad becuz he was a good guy and a really great friend. but i dunno how to get him to talk to me.. like a heart-to-heart talk, so i would tell him the whole truth and stuff. he seems to really hate my guts right now, but i really want to talk to him. he used to tell me he loved me as a friend and more than that. but i dunno why he hates me now and i sometimes wonder how love could just DISAPPEAR just like that. ..
SOMEONE HELP... i really need somones help.. its really hurtful how i was rejected and i want my wounds healed. Anyone out there with a good answer??
~SB

He probably felt the same way with the whole rejection thing he probably feels like you rejected him and his pride got hurt give him time im sure he'll come around i know it hurts i cant really give you the advice because i too was looking for similar advice my best friend got mad at me because i wanted to be just friends and now we dont talk at all but i think about him all the time but anyways give him time if he refuses to talk to you maybe write him a letter or something i really hope things work out for you♥
I wish i could help more i really do and im sorry i cant.

thanks.. actually, u really did help me a little.. thanks for the advice.. well how u said that "he'll come around".. i dunno.. he MIGHT but then i dunno why but i have doubts about that becuz i've been waiting for him for a long time... ever since like October... but i guess i'll just wait more... and how you stated that he might have felt the same way, rejected... that touched me.. well i said sorry to him many times but he doesnt wanna accept my apology and that hurts even more.. i really want him to forgive me.. i am Christian, and i read the Bible of course.. so in the Bible, it says, nice and clear, "Forgive, and you will be forgiven." thats what i told him (hes Christian too) but he didnt wanna accept anything. he told me he forgave me but he didnt mean it. he just said that for God's sake. But God knows his heart and if he forgave me or not. (oops sorry i talk about my religious beliefs a lot.. if it offends you in any way, let me know k?)
thats really sad about you and your best friend... i'll tell you this: i feel you. i'm going through a serious "rejection" pro.. and it looks like you did too.. so ur not the only one :) ... i really hope things work out for you too.. becuz i know what it feels like to be rejected and ignored.