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Love problems I suppose? You should never be afraid to tell anyone, let alone to tell me. Just think of me as your very best friend, I am glad to lend an ear and to advise on you as well. Please open yourself up freely, no one here is to judge you, and all of your questions or confusions I will try my ver best to clear up.
Feel free to write to me! ~one.sky~

Well i have had a problem for a couple months now. I like my friend and he's known since valentines day. Everyone says he likes me too because he turns beat red around me. When he tried to get my attention in school he told my friend he freaked out and ran lol. When my friend told him i wore a sign that said "property of lili", he said, " she should be wearing a sign that says property of Chris", and turned red. My friend constantly catches him staring at me and we always look into eachothers eyes for about two minutes until we finally realize it. The problem is, whenever we make plans, something always comes up for him. Even when he made the time and day, he couldn't go. My friend told him his chances are becoming slim and he got all sad and when she told him (without knowing for sure) that i was going to meet up with a guy at the mall who i had met last time and gave my number to thinking it was a joke, Chris flipped out. He shows all these signs, but when it comes to meeting up with me somewhere, he never follows through. I decided it's not worth it and i'm not going to make plans with him because they never work out. Do you think i'm being too harsh? What do i do? Should i forget about him and move on? I've never felt this strongly about a guy. I don't want to let go, but nothing ever goes as planned and i feel like i should just give up. Help.

well, giving up would just leave you wondering what could happen next, i think maybe hanging out with him more and having some quality time together would be more of a solution. he might not be a "showy" person, where his feelings are not too out in the open and to be viewed, or he may be at an adjustment period getting used to being around you since you say he's showing signs of liking you, then he must be also nervous being around you and would not know how to act at first, not exactly. forgive him for that, it may be too much nerve-wrecking for him when he's around you cause he likes you, and though you may be casual, just keep up with it, make him feel comfortable around you, and pretty soon he will be too!
Thanks for sharing time with me, id love to hear more from you! till next time! ~n~

One Word:

Pathetic...Humorously so.

Why?

Because people are telling their love life, to a pseudo agony aunt like yourself...

Here’s an idea. Let them sort it out when they visit a counsellor or a professional…

See the last time i checked..this is an advice forum about love. Thanks for your advice. I'll let you know if anything happens...

got a question for ismail. why do u come on here if all u do is slagg evert1s topic off?
sort it out

Seriously, what is your reasoning ismail?

shes just sad and deressed and shes trying to let all her negative energy by transmitting it to us( people looking for hope and advce) dont hate her help her she must be feeling lonely and sad and theres shoulders to lean on or kick on.(whatever helps)

Seriously, Ismail, IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING POSITIVE TO SAY, THEN SHUT UP. all the posts i read written by you sound like you're REALLY trying to put ppl down. quit it. and stop hurting other ppl and pissing other ppl off.

sorry for sounding harsh, but you know, it gets really annoying.

THANK YOU FOR EVERYONE'S SUPPORT, I DEEPLY APPRECIATE IT. I'm sure Ismail has just got some problem with people helping other people, not too sociable maybe, but I do understand. Thank you, Ismail, for trying to produce constructive criticism, i guess it just didnt work out.
For everyone, please do feel free to share anything with me.. i do appreciate it! Thank you! ~one.sky~