My friends just don't understand!

You'd think your friends would support you if you have finally found someone to love. Well, I'm afraid to tell my best friends that I might be pregnant. They would kill me and my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I need to tell someone b/c it's eating me up inside and causing me more stress. Can someone please help?

your 16, that means it okay, but umm what bout your parents?

Might be? Why tell them anything unless you are sure?

Kalika

My boyfriend wants to have children. He said if I am, he would be ecstatic about it. :) He really loves me and has planned a lot of stuff out just in case I am.

As for my friends, I don't know how I'm going to tell them. I wish they could accept the fact that I'm not the same girl I use to be. I have changed.

I seriously don't get you sometimes! ^^
You're 17 aren't you? Does that not count as being a teenager lol?

Angelina: Manners...Now.

To the post starter: Why would your best friend kill you?

If you tell them slowly, they will understand, and try to support you. And if they get angry it is only because they love you.

So I suggest you tell...

My good-friend, who was 18 was afraid to tell me that she was excpecting. She was so scared that I'd turn all weird on her and trow her out of our lunch table and stuff and not talk to her because i myself woulnd't want to be considered a "slut" Like mean people were calling her. Eventually she got around to telling me 4 months in when i found her sick in the ladies bathroom! I felt aweful that she felt that she couldn't tell me because of how I might treat her. In the end she really needed my support more than ever!! I was even there to hold her hand when her baby came (The father refused to take blame for the child) In the end your friends are your friends and friends are there for support. If you can't tell them about this... than are they really friends?? If things fall through with your girls, which I hope it doesn't I'd join a teen group for expecting teens! You'll find alot of people that are in your shoes there.... and maybe find even better friends! I wish you best of luck and I hope you keep the baby! Who knows? It could be the one to find the solution to cancer! Good-luck and I'll keep you in my prayers!

DO NOT have a baby if you cant keep it
Abortion can be right, if you know that you have no support, its better to end it now then to have to give the baby up to live a miserable life in foster homes, beccause that is more painful then anything, growing up without a family and such.

If you can, try to keep it. Try as hard as you can to get support.
Some people will leave you
others wont.
Keep that in mind

I'm keeping it if I am. I will NOT get an abortion and I'm NOT putting he/she up for adoption. I refuse and so does the father.

You are gonna have to tell them at sm point why not sooner rather than later.

And if they are true friends they will understand.

Take care Sarah x

16 and pregnant?
well we all make mistakes.
however if your friends are going to kill you for having do this then screw them..they should be by your side because right now, you need them the most. i suggest tell the one person you feel closest to, hopefully you'll get the reaction that you need.

Why would you want to have a child at the age of 16? I don't understand.

Kalika