again with the lesbian subject

well i just found out that one of my closest friends is in love with me when she found out that i use to be bi maybe i still am she desided to let me know. she has never fell in love with a girl before and i've liked girls but never loved one what should i do sould either i jump into a relationship with her or should i give it time

Give it time.

//Ari\\

i want to know that too...^^

Emma

Gari: Shush!!

I think experimentation is good, it let's the person know whether or not they are or are not attracted to men or women.

Your friend has a crush on you. Big deal.

Time will help ease the crush to a solid friendship. Just treat your friend as though she is a boy who has a crush on you.

you can "used to be bi" easy one there if you don't like both anymore for most you go completely gay then there are those few out there that don't find joy in it anymore and go completely straight but usually they still want that thrill but don't like being with the same sex hope that helps you out

I have 4 friends that say they're "Bi" and each has a different reason.

1) My friend nick is just now making the change from straight to gay... SO since he's somwhere in the middle at the moment.... He's considered Bi turing gay... It takes awhile to become fully gay.

2) My friend John is bi.... mostly because he's a huge man slut and trys to scoop up on as much sex as he can get...... ya it's better not to ask.

3) And my friend marko says he's bi becuase he would still "do" a girl but enjoys it better with a man... But he kind of wants to marry a girl to keep his family name and farm going....

4) My friend sarah was once a lezbian but decided that maybe she should give men one last chance.... because i told her that maybe she wasn't actually a lezzi but maybe was just choosing the WRONG men. So she tryed out a very sweet and loving boy... and decided after a 4 month relationship that she was in fact a lezzie...

Those are I guess 4 different reasons why people are Bi... I suppose this might answer your question bob.... But still I don't get it myself, so I'm not sure if it answered your question or not.

Does it matter if she's a girl? I mean - to be a close friend of yours you must like her a lot anyway? She wouldn't be a close friend if you didn't like her after all. It's about her personality - not her sex. Ok, so give it time - never jump into a relationship, but I think that you should at least try with her - if it doesn't work - then you could probably still be friends, as you DO like each other. Think about it . . .

Peace. [Sole]

I think that you should give it time. If you're not sure where you stand, whether or not you are still into girls or not, I think you shouldn't just jump into a relationship; it may not be right and you may end up hurting her. For now, I would just give it time, and maybe think things through and think how things work out.

And if she says she isn't bi anymore, believe her. I think she would know better than any of you.

xx

I wasn't responding to you. I was responding to her topic, and various responses following.
But heck, flame me all you like.
Just shows what you're like.

Porter xx

Ouch the pair of you - quit it serioulsy LMAO

Two words grow up

Anyhoo
Big deal if she acts on her crush come back and tell us then you have a real issue

Peace

Eirisa

Well . . . If she's anything like me, she is going to wait for you to respond - bad or good. If you wait for her to act - you might lose something really great. . .

Peace. [Sole]

well maybe you shoudl give it some time and just talk to her about everything!.