Guys, how do you judge?

*stares admiringly at GoldenKnight*

For me, I only judge the girls by their look if I don't know them in person, after I get to know them, their look is not so important. If I love a girl's personality then I will see her as beautiful... hehe, and vice versa. I love girls' smile and funny/random personality, I dislike stubbornness... but that applies to both girls and guys... I have this strange habbit of wanting to prove them wrong... its random.. :D

lol........

I'd have to say the first thing I notice about a female is her eyes... A person's eyes is the window to their soul.

Second thing I notice is their smile and then personality.

Turnoffs: total dittsyness (lol), but yea, a girl cant be like teeheehee...

Yours Truely, Inlove2004 :)

tough question, I think its everything, smile, eyes, personality...

I dunno, when I meet a girl, its not that hard to notice if she is lookin/single or if she just acts around you like a friend and doesnt want anythin started.

I dunno, I guess I just look into their eyes and you can see A LOT, if she looks away, if she smiles, how she looks back, how she talks back to you, if she makes you smile, if she ends the conversation or always wants to keep talkin and keeps it goin, if she is comfortable around you or no (shy is NOT a bad thing, tho)...

all these things add up, but looks? geez thats lust not love, it wont get you far

Hey what I see in a girl is her personality
but of course the looks help allot

** Alexander **

they just hafta be cool not snobbish not to talkative etc. .... not everyguy goes for the rich blond haired green eyed huge breasted gurl

im bored

I dunno... seen some posts by LoStNlOvElEsS15 and it looks like she is easily bored

Some guys in this era of "teens" are after girls who is by their bed in the weekend. =/

It is rare to find someone whi is "true"

Nessa

hmmm, its hard, i dont judge people, however, i do try and look for the positives, one thing i realli like about girls tho are their eyes. eyes and personality.
Ben

I am a Girl, and To help the situation out.. I will give my point of view on what I like and dislike in a guy.. For all those guys out there..

Personally I always fall for a guys eyes.. I love blue or hazel eyes. That was the first thing I saw when I met my hubby. I also like a well defined Jaw line. Tall is good too. But personallity is key.. He has to make me laugh, and be able to listen to me as well as talk. I am not shy so I like someone that can keep up to me.

Dislikes. I hate a guy that is full of himself. Us girls always know who those guys are.. I dislike a guy who is what we call a "pretty boy" cocky is another bad quality many man seem to have..

All in all. Looks don't really matter to me.. I mean I have to be attracted to the person. But I could care less what others think of him. I get to know them first then go from there.

Guys that refer to girls/women as "bitches" shouldn't crap on hormone driven monkeys:p...leave that to me;)

Guys that says the only thing that he's attracted to when it comes to women is their minds and personality is full of crap. They know it and so do the females they tell that to;)

What's one the inside is very important, especially if you want to make any kind of real and lasting connection with the a person, but that wasn't the original question:p.

Physically, what attracts me is a nice smile, long hair, small waist, nice butt, and small breast:)..not tiny breast:p. A nice handful...lol a female showing a nice mid-section is the best

Finally. i've been waiting for a guy to post that.(kevin J's post- thanx for your honesty). Of course personality is the most important thing, but you not going to aproach an ugly girl to see if she has a nice personality are you? (pls tell me if i'm wrong) . 90% of my friends are boys and unfortunately i get to listen to them talk about the opposite sex quite often and never have i heard 1 them say, "Check out the personality on that one" and compared to other guys i know, my friends are sweet and and kind so pls don't say looks don't matter, i for one need a guy who i'm not going to dread kissing. call me shallow if you want. If i had to choose between an incredibly handsome guy with a horrid personality or an ugly guy with a great personality, i'd choose neither because both relationships would never work out.

anyways to anwser the original question, i like guys who are taller than me, broader and weigh more than me. (i don't want to be afraid to sit on his lap incase i break his leg or nuttin lol) I don't like facial hair but i do like CONFIDENCE (not arrogance)- its very important to me. There's just something so sexy about it. xmollyxx

I think there needs to be some form of initial attraction(she doesnt have to be the most beautiful girl in the world) but there needs to be a moment of...wow.......... PErsonnaly im a smile, and eye guy...but of coarse that isnt the foundation of anything but a one night stand, after that what attracts me the most is going to be a level of honesty, so many personalitys are attracktive, i think the quiet girl is sweet, but the outgoing girl is a blast..... but finding a girl who you can be honest with is so inportant...... after that its the fealing you get when you hang up on the phone, when you got that silly smile still plasted on your face, or you imedeatly start dialing her number up again just to say good bye one last time(usualy i stop myself, dont wana seem to needy)........But yeah thats me, right now i found this girl, who has these amazing eyes and smile, who no matter how odd it getts between us, i always leave smiling...I dont know but the fealing of being liked and cared for is the most attractive fealing.....

whoa, molly! that is so true! (and funny^_^)

guys, let me add to that... , i agree with most of the girls that you guys wouldn't approach someone and/or say check out her personality (quoting molly, haha! that was sooo funny!)

if we were in the real world and you're "looking" for love, then i suspect you'd tend to look at her physical appearance.

but in other cases, love just pops out right under your nose. like when you've been around someone for so long and her personality is what makes you cherish them, you want to be with her because she's who she is and not because you want to stare at her beautiful face/figure forever. (that's a different story) you miss her personality, what makes her the love of your life. yeah, after that, everything just kinda falls into pieces. there's "balance".

i can't prove this statement right, but yet again, you can't be sure it's wrong.