someone new

I say meet this new guy... i mean what is the harm in that, it sounds like you guys have a lot in common anyways.

Meet the new guy. He might just be the distraction you need.

take a chance and meet him.

Jacob as you call him, cheated on you and blamed you for his apparent cheating.

You are better off with a man who respects you, than a man who plays around and blames you.