Am I To Young To Fall In Love?

Ok, so everyone saids that kids my age can't fall in love because they don't know what love is but i strongly disagree with that. I'm only fifteen but I feel like I'm in love with someone that I used to date. (yeah he's my ex but I can't find it in my heart to refer to him as my ex) I dont know if that makes sense but yeah. Well me and him we going out for a while (since November 2005) and we recently broke up (feb 15) anyways I love him but I don't know if I should try to make him realize that (besides he has a gf)... am i to young to fall in love... what do i do???

you can never be too young to fall in love. and only you can know if you're in love, no one else can ever feel what you feel.
and...i think you have to let go of your ex-boyfriend. i am also in love with my ex, but i know for a fact that i will never be able to get him back. you just have to learn how to move on. you'll never be able to forget him, but you can fall in love again. but i don't know your exact situation; as in why did you break up, who broke up with who, ect. maybe you can get back together, but considering he already has a girlfriend, maybe he didn't feel the same.
but i have no idea what happened, so don't let my opinion ruin your hopes. i hope everything works out okay with you two,
lauren

thanks alot for that it really helps, yeah its complicated but its also hard to get over him because i see him all the time well i used to because his parents are close to mine... i havent seen him for a while and its really hard because i use to see him alot. anyways thanks again

i see my ex all the time at school. he's in a couple of my classes and sits next to me. its hard, but i'd much rather NOT see him than see him and remember everything we had...and i'm glad i helped =P

yeah, i know thats one good thing we dont go to school together, hes a senior im a freshman and he goes to a school thats like fifteen minutes from mine... yeah you did, but besides that whole thing with them, your 14 right? did ur parents know about your ex if they did how do they feel about you dating?

well...
they knew we were "going out" and they didn't think it was anything serious. i'm not supposed to seriously date until i'm 16. but after my boyfriend broke up with me...and my reaction/behavior for the past couple of months...they realized that i honestly, really did love him. and yes, i'm 14. sorry to be nosey, and i'm ok with you asking me this, but why are you asking? lol

Agreed Angelina :o)

Eirisa

If you think you are too young to date. Then you are.

If you think you are just right to date. Then you can.

It is all up to your mentality.

lol cause my mom completly flipped on me so i was wondering

NO one is to young to fall in love you can fall in love at any age but if u really do love him then i would try but not get in the way too much since he has a g/f u dont wannna start anything with her im sure cause then that could just make him mad at you for it or something who knows but yea ur not to young to be in love

~*~*~*~Beautiful Mistake~*~*~*~

Ismail must you date to love...? I know and have experience loving someone from a distance...?

we learn to love when we are little kids we learn that we love our mom and dad, but as you get older you learn that you have a love for other people also, but i can truly say that i fell in love when i was yonger and i still do love him even though im not with him.

we learn to love when we are little kids we learn that we love our mom and dad, but as you get older you learn that you have a love for other people also, but i can truly say that i fell in love when i was yonger and i still do love him even though im not with him.

NO I THINK ANYONE CAN FALL IN LOVE. I CANT SAY WOT AGE I AM BUT IM UNDER 13 AND IV BEEN GOIN OUT WITH MY GF FOR 7 MONTHS

OMG my and my BF broke up Feb. 27 and we had been together since Nov 7... well we have been off and on for about 3-4 years... i feel that i am in love with him... however he has a Girl Friend that he got 3 days after we broke up.. MY "best friend".. well i think irts possible to be im love

--FLIRT--

OMG my and my BF broke up Feb. 27 and we had been together since Nov 7... well we have been off and on for about 3-4 years... i feel that i am in love with him... however he has a Girl Friend that he got 3 days after we broke up.. MY "best friend".. well i think irts possible to be im love

--FLIRT--

no, you can be any age to fall in love, in my point of view.

you know when i was 15 my mom told me that i didnt no what love was... she was wrong.. you are never to young or old to fall inlove

^^i agree^^

If you seek encouragement to 'love' then it seem's your unable to love at that age.

If you accept you 'love' and get on with your life - then, you're probably more able too.

I have a feeling alot of people don't ever taste the real deal.

i'll say this, basically in this world, NOBODY understands love and they can't say how you feel. Ignore people who say people your age (my age too) that you're too young for love. i felt love for the first time nearly 2 years ago. and i was 13. and still to this day i can still say i felt it. everyone can tell me i'm too young to understand it, maybe its just a crush, but believe me, nobdoy can tell us how we feel and no one understands love. even when you're deeply in love, you've barely scratched the surface.

thanks alot for everyone answering me even those who said things that i may not agree with i did ask for your advice and thats what i got... an honest answer... just wanted to say thanks

Haha, Hun. Your not to young to fall in love. I'm Seventeen..and I am in love, like Head over Heels in love with my boyfriend right now. As for what you should do..I say you should tell him..how you feel..I mean..how will he know what you are thinking or your feelings are towards him if you don't tell him? But yeah, it's stupid how adults say stuff about it only being puppy love. It's pretty easy to tell the diffrence between "Love" and "Puppy Love" Or in my oppinion it is.. Such as my boyfriend and I know..I'd give my life for him or anything..He's my closest friend aswell. ^^ I hope I was some help.. And if you want to talk more you can always message me. I'm willing to help out Dear.

Take Care, Love Always Megan.

I don't think there's such a thing about too young to fall in love.

I think if you're sure it's love, it's love.

But if you have any doubts, it's a deep like.

well okay heres what i think. im in 8th grade and im going out wtih a kid. and its ben 7months. and he alawyas says like irlyl lvoe you and stuff and like i feel like i lvoe him and like i ry not tolsiten to my friends when they say ur too young. bcuz okay i think if u rlly feel tht strongly abot someon its doesnt matter what other ppl think. if u think ur in love ur in love. i dnt think there is an age limit for love. so if u rlly love someone dnt doubt it

are you to young to fall in love? i don't think so.love can come at any age.and if you can hold on to it and ever let it go then its worth it.

and if you still love him... try telling himm exactially how you feel.

~Hilary~

Listen Jen,
I totally get what you're going through! I'm 15 and I think i'm in love with this guy who I went out with. We recently broke up because I didn't know how to deal with stuff. He and I have been writing letters 2 eachother for like 3 yr.'s. Not neccearilly (wrong spelling) love letters just things we were feeling and just talking about the future.(If we had one or not). I don't "know" if I love him or not and just recently I found out that he might have those same feelings for me. All I know is that whenever I'm with him I have butterflies in my stomach, whenever I hear our song I smile the whole time and long after, whenever I talk on the phone with him I don't know what to say and My mom even says that sometimes when she looks at me then I'll have this smile on my face and a sparkle in my eyes and it's usually when I'm thinking about him, after seeing him,or after I talk to him.

I Think I'm In love!
try and email me

YOU ARE NOT TOO YOUNG!!and to fall in love or like someone you dont have to be old..cauze no one can control their feelings...i think first you shud be sure that he still likes you..or cares about you even if its a lil bit...then tell him and see what happens..you wont die..dont worry...tell himm...im telling you it will help..if it doesnt then not my fault:D:D LISTEN TO YOUR HEART (like other people say)

no one is to younge to fall in love. im onyl 15 soon 16 and i think i fell in love with my best friend. I known him since last year and lately he hasn't been able to get out of my head. and during s-tests we were told to right a story about a picture and i wrote about him and i still can't get him out of my head i even wrote a poem. i don't know if he likes me you use to but i don't know anymore. if you want look at my poem its call i love you. and you should really time him you love him because if you don't you never know you might regert it like i regret telling my best friend i liked him untill now. you never know when you are going to see him again evnen if he goes to your school. well if you need any help just ask.

hey, thanks alot to everyone for helping me out, Cagil thanks for telling me to find out the truth because I did. I asked him how he felt and I told him that I loved him & he told me he loved me too!! ;) He told me that he tried going out with someone else to see if he can get over me and it didn't work. (my mom didnt agree with us dating so yeah) We have decided to be together without telling her until some time passes by. THE IMPORTANT THING IS I'M BACK WITH MY BABY!!!! thanks alot guys!!!!
♥ Much Love... BaBy J

I don't think you are too young to fall in love. You are never too young. I do however think you are, not necessarily too young, but inexpierenced with emotions as such and you don't understand the feelings and haven't had enough time to feel so much. WHich is why you question it. Hell I fell in love for the first time and I was 14 and I still can't forget about him. I had it bad. hehe : ) Does that make sense?

I agree because I'm also 15 and I'm in love with my boyfriend of 3 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah I totally disagree for people that say that we're too young! You should let him know how you feel abiut him, I mean wat do you got to loose! It might even make a difference and it would be good! He might feel the same way, you just never know! If not then I mean son't be so hard on yourself you are a great person and you might even be too good for him!!!Well good luck and just follow wat your heart says!
~*~Cindy~*~

if he already has a gf he doesnt love you, so dont go there.

As everyone said yeah your not to young to fall in love.. but remember guys are imature.. dont believe every guy that tells you they love you..

Many people say their in love .. and that they'll never get over a person .. but 3 weeks later they get a new boyfriend/girlfriend.. and they fall in love all over again..

yea, thanks for answering me... he broke up with his "rebound" awhile ago and we've been talking im not rushing into anything but so far things are getting better and its great to aleast talk to him ...thanks!

Love is a powerful word, and people often misuse it. People in their 30's claim to love someone and are married to them with kids, and a few years later divorce. Is that love? No, it can't be, because love is suppose to be forever. Like the love your parents give you and you return, something like that lasts forever. I don't think you can find love at your age, or even at my age. You don't really know when you've found it. You can claim to, and it not be. So I contradict myself when I say, you can find love at any age, but you will never know if it is true or not.

I agree with Darien. Well said..even though I know NOTHING of Love..

You're never too young to love.
As a child, you love your mother, your father, your siblings, your first pet, and the list goes on.

As you get older you develop relationships, you love your friends, cousins, aunts, grandparents, etc.

Also, as you get older you develop other feelings, including lust, and infatuation, which are commonly confused with love.

Before making any rash decisions, try very hard to distinguish between the three, and honestly, and unbiasedly try to discover which you are feeling, and then base your decision on your conclusion.

Kalika

Kalika, I agree with you in my personal opinion.

But we must be open. There are people out there who hate their parents for the things they have put them through, and have been betrayed by the love that was suppose to be there. Now I ask you, is that truely love? We don't really know the true meaning, we just know, that it is there, and we try to make it work as best we can. Older people have a much better idea of grasping the concept because they have had more experience. So it is harder for someone younger to know true love.

I agree Darian. The word love can easily be misused.