why did he end it, or start it?

  • nikki
    20 years ago

    ok, i meet this guy and we were sorta friends before anything happend. the day before we started going out he was like my familys gonna ask about you, wat do i tell him, he even wrote i love you on the bench we were sitting at and tried to hide it but then beofre i went home he kissed me, this was a passionete kiss!! i thought about it that night and decided that i was gonna ask him out. the nest day i asked him out and he didnt say yes straight away! infact his mates had to pin him against the wll before he said yes?? we were fine though, he explained to me he did really like me but he had to talk to a few ppl before starting it. however i did quuestion this for the next two week we were very happy. he started to see me less often frm wat was almost everyday to once a week. he'd come up with stupied excuses about he was 'busy', most of the time he would playhis PS2. and when i rang him, and hed ring me, untill he couldnt ring me anymor and i had to do all the ringing so i rang him around his scedual everyday cause i could hardly see him! he then told me i didnt have to ring him everyday! he was starting to relaly upset me but i bared with it and kept smiling. one day he goes to me on the fne, i dont like you know more, and i thought he was only messing cause he does it alot so i went with it but when he had to go he was still sayin it. i could hear him messing in his voice but when he had to go he never said i love you or anything, he just said hang up then, so i said fine! the next day at school my gd mate, and his gd mate aswell asked him wat was happening, he said he didnt know and it was a yes, no you decide. i rang him and asked for an answer and he was like i dunno, i asked him for the answer the next day. i was so upset but instead of comferting me he just said, i have to go, i just said bye. he never gave me an answer the next day so when his best mate asked me if i was going out with him i just simply said no. i talk to his occasionally on aol. twice since we broke up. did i do the right thing?? shoudl i continue being mates?? and if i do continue beong his mate is tehre ever a chance of getting beck to gether?? i really think i love him, is he worth it??

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    You did do the right thing. By the sound of it, I don't think he's worth you loving him. I say continue to be friends with him, you can never have too many friends, but forget about getting back... it takes time for a boy to become a man, just dont love him until then ;)