family problems help!

what on earth do i do?!?!? please help

right my mum hates me she says it all the time wishes she never had me all that stuff, and we never have got along im her second daughter so my sister is the favourite i'll admit that, any way im my dads first child, because my mum was pregnant with my sister wen she met me dad, any way so im daddies little girl and my mum cant stand it, she refuses to talk to me or anything, i cant confide in her and tell her things like mothers and daughters are suposed to instead i talk to my boyfriends mum, the thing is recently my dad has picked up on my mums attitude towards me and i used to be able to talk to my dad about the way she treats me, but they had a huge row and my mum threatened to leave if i carried on teling my dad, so now when she treats me like shit i got to kepp my mouth shut because i have younger brothers and i cant put them through a family break up, but recently my mum's been trying to turn my dad against me and its working at the moment, they dont let me out and its realy annoyin because i was out 6 hours today am in loads of shit they knew who i was with and where but it drives me mad, i've ran away before obviously came back that was a mistake was grounded for 10 months straight! sucks well bad!!! an ideas how i can change things or make them better? please help me

I believe if you really want things to change you have got to tell some one sometime soon. I know mothers can sometimes be a pain, but that's not the way they should treat their kids. Im sorry to tell you this, but you should threaten HER on calling a child abuse line, cause that's what she is doing, she's abusing you, whether you believe it or not. Or atleast tell your dad or any family member, it doesn't matter if you have a "family break up"....I don't think that with the way your mom is it's called a family. Im sorry and I hope some one will give you better advice than I myself. I hope things work out soon.

hey i agree that you should tell someone. its not your falt if the family breaks up i mean i dont want you to have to o through that but she cant threaten you with that, it isnt fair, hope it works out, but yeah tell someone its not fair that you suffer.
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are you fed daily - yeh i am
do you go to school and what are your grades - yeh i do they were gud grades they kinda gone downhill
do you have access to a computer at home - yeh only when they aint on it
do you have enough clothes to wear - just about
does your family go on vacation together - no
do your parents know your boyfriend - they met him once or twice dont really talk to him
what did you accomplish when you ran away
and how did you return, "did they look for you" - they threatened to get the police involved and cos i was with my mates i didnt want them to get into trouble so i went back, and i got bollocked really bad, they locked me in the house for 10 months, wudnt let me go on computer use the fone, tuk my mobile off me, i wasnt allowed to do anything.

Hmmm sounds like a tough battle of the females in your household...I dont know enough abotu your situation to really help or comment about it - Bob has got some really good points though...think of all the poor kids who dont have parents or do and dont have the basics they are supposed to provide as he mentioned in his email. I am a mother my self though so if you care to email me (via my profile) I can try and help you from a different perspective...