Well I..Don't get it...

Okay. I like this guy a lot right?...Well he doesn't go to my school but lives like 10 minutes from here. We have hung up out before and I fell in love with him. And yes he knows but I don't know if he cares...I mean I can't sleep at night because he's always on my mind. I can't think because of course he's all I ever think about. I don't know if I'm actually in love. But he's always constantly on my mind. I always wonder who he's going to date. If it'll be me. I mean I really want to date this guy...I like him so much. But a lot of girls at his school like him too! And it drives me nuts. He just broke up with his girlfriend which is pretty great! :) But a whole bunch of girls like him at his school too. ANd I Have a feeling they'd get a chance before I ever would! :( I mean..I talk to him a lot..Like on the phone, online..ect..But I really want to go out with him.
Does anybody have any advice that I could say to him to see if he feels the same way. Or would give me a chance?! Please post..I need the help..THanks! :)

I think you should tell him how you feel, it doesn't matter if it'll be hard. Atleast he'll know and maybe if he feels the same way, he'll let you know how he feels. If he doesn't feel the same way then this time you'll know and won't be worried about the other girls. Now you will know whether you had a chance or not.

Hey thanks mandii..But the problem is. Now my best friend is getting involved and I have a feeling he's gonna start falling for her! :( And I don't want that to happen coz then I'll be heart broken

Well - I hate to say it . . but I doubt your in love. Infatuation is more likely - in which case try, if it doesn't work, then pass it - you'll find someone else. If you were in love - you would not be happy that he just split up with his girlfriend - love isn't about wanting someone . . more needing them. Perhaps it's the closest to love you have come - which is understandably why you think you're in love. It will pass . . .don't lose too much sleep - I listen to music sometimes, or turn the television onto silent then watch it and try and guess what people are saying. It helps!

Peace. [Sole]

I beg to differ Sole
Love is about wanting someone, it is about needing them but more importantly its about wanting mostly for them to be happy and sometimes that means letting them go...

I'd have to agree with Eibutsina. It appears the author of the thread knows this fellow quite well, and isn't just someone she's bumped into in the street and was taken by how he looks, and became infatuated with him after some small talk.

No, it appears much deeper.

But, I'd also caution the venerable author of the thread: only you know your feelings.

As for me, I can offer no advice of my own, especially as I'm following the post of Eibutsina. As painful as the "letting go" part of her advice may be, I'm afraid I agree there too.

In short, I agree fully with Eibutsina.

OoOh Thanks Daniel I love being agreed with...I think infatuation is more appropriate to this posters scenario, she may not realise it now, but in years to come she will...

Hey you guys thanks. You all have great points! :) And I've thought deeply about it. And I thought to myself. Well If he doesn't need me, then why do I need him? And Sole you were right, I wasn't in love because now I forgot about him and I have moved on. You had a great point there and I just had some..What do they call it, Puppy Love?..Anyways you guys were all right, And I don't understand why I was always focused on him. There was something about him then, and Nothing about him now :)
You guys are all great..Keep in touch! xoxo
Kristyn